I don't think he's sincere Janna

Submitted by Cynthia (United States), May 9, 2016 at 08:36

Hi Janna,

I'm sorry you have been suffering as you have been. You're too young to feel this much misery. You should be enjoying your young years. They slip away before you know it. It sounds all you have had with this guy is one disappointment you one time right after another. This is not happiness whatsoever. He's saying things to you to pacify you.

In my opinion I don't think any good will ever come of this. I've been in this situation and I wasted my time. I'm sure you're not the only. It's unusual for a man his age to be still single in his culture. There's definitely something going on with him. I've said this along with others. The Internet is not a real place. You haven't met him and you're miserable and feel suicidal. Don't ever end your life over anyone or anything. You have to help yourself. Set your mind to that you know there's many better things to life than this. You need to be enjoying your life and getting your life prepared on how your going to live it career wise. I think your best choice is to find a guy in your country.

Your chances are so much higher there to find the right guy. It name take time because you need to get yourself together from how this Egyptian man has made you have a low slef esteem ( they are great at doing this) you feel suicidal, you have lost interest in preparing your life for a good life as far a career because you didn't go to college. It's never too late . You're only 23. Block him out of your life and move on. Give it time and I promise one day you will be happy you did this. You don't deserve this treatment and lies. He has emotionally abused you whether you realize it or not. Let him go so you can heal and start finding your place in this life . You will meet the right man but to be able to do that you need to block him out 100%. Take this advice from someone who knows. This website are full of very similar stories. I read one that said it seemed like they all are given a handbook on how to have the mentality they have. Especially toward foreign women.

I know there's majority that in their family they don't say I love you to each other. If you hear them like on cam , it could be an act being performed for you. They don't talk to their family as open as Europeans and Americans do. It's a completely different way of life. They are excellent actors . Don't harm yourself please. He's not worth it. Trust me on this . Come here as much as you need to and everyone here will help you through this but you have to be willing to help yourself and put him out of your life forever. You're in my thoughts and I'm hoping you can see the light. Best wishes to you and let us know what you decide and please don't allow it to be to take your own life over a nobody acting person who does not care about you or what happens to you . It's an act!! All too familiar. You're not the only one he is doing this to. He may have multiple accounts. Mine did. Please seriously think about what I've said . I don't think I've told you anything that's not true.

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