To Not Sure, please love yourself

Submitted by Shömi (United States), May 5, 2016 at 18:16

Dear Not Sure,

It is the beginning of emotional torture he has prepared for you. There will be another call and apology, talk of his dignity and deep feelings for you. The vicious circle of confusion, guilt and obligation will never end, unless you stop any communication with him.

Look at him. He wouldn't even allow you to ask a question. He lost all respect to you the moment you answered his first call ("street walker"?!). Do not let this virtual piece of $@!# call you names, hurt you. Do not allow him to have any influence on the way you live and how you feel about yourself. He represents nothing but generic, soggy lies. He can't fund himself, so he manipulates women into supporting this fabulous image of himself. The line about "giving you children" is just pathetic. You are a bigger person and he has nothing to offer to you.

Don't be sad, be angry. Turn your anger into fuel to do things you've always wanted to do for YOURSELF. Trust me, you get him out of the picture, and you will see a whole new world ahead of you. You will feel loved and free soon. Trust me, I've been there, it doesn't take long if you are consequent enough.

Big hug from Shömi <3

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