To Not Sure

Submitted by Hope (United States), May 1, 2016 at 03:27

So you found out his true colours because you rumbled him and he knows it - you probably asked too many questions. You have had a lucky escape. He tried to turn it round on you to make you feel bad as "they" do and to make you think it is you with a problem BUT IT IS HIM. Narcissism at it's best. Now you have to concentrate on yourself as you are in a vulnerable position, something these men prey on and pick up on. You need to grieve the loss of your Mother, take one day at a time, breathe, rebuild your self esteem, appreciate what you have on a daily basis, see the beauty in nature, pamper yourself, get support from friends and family, don't over think about the situation (re him) and everything will get better, albeit slowly.

Do not be hard on yourself, it is not you but be thankful he has deleted you - you have been saved from a hellish experience. It is not love they offer I can assure you - love yourself first and get help from people who will genuinely care about you or professionals if you are feeling as bad as you say or do not have people around you.

You only have to read the stories on this website to know it is the truth and that you have got out before it is too late - harsh but true. Look after no.1 - you! Take care.

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