Fast "I Love You" And Taking Fun Trip --Listen to your BRAIN.....

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Apr 4, 2016 at 02:11

Hi Ophelia:

First of all, what kind of man says "I love you" right away and plans vacations with someone he just met outside of his apartment? Answer: one who probably has a nefarious agenda in this situation.

Please a good look at the other stories on here. Really, there's plenty to choose from. Over 12K posts over 10 years. All kinds of risk---virtually ZERO reward.

Secondly, the conflict you are having inside isn't unusual, but there is a clear choice.

Third,Ophelia, if you stay with him, you'll just keep falling for a man who has demonstrated all of these red flags that you seem to already suspect. He'll wear you down, and next thing you know, it could be 5-10 years later and he wants to leave/you catch him trying to meet younger women behind your back.

That's a possible path the "well, what could go wrong if I just hang for a bit".

I do find it concerning, Ophelia, that you are falling so fast for a man who just seemed to bump into you on the street. Some men even pride themselves on being able to pick up strange (to them) women.

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