Sounds so familiar... just like my moroccan man

Submitted by J (United States), Mar 28, 2016 at 17:57

what can I say .. im in shock.. listening to all these stories.... so similar.. to my story..
I am older than he is... educated .. USA citizen.. perfect target..for his plans..

I have been loved in the most special way.. like no one would in USA...
but i have also seen the worst of any man i have met..
Jealousy... temper.. selfish.. screamed at.. abusive words.. threats up to burning up the house..killing me if I am unfaithful.. breaking my face if he finds a message on facebook or text on cell phone from another man.. I cant post a selfie in facebook,, once did and he went nuts!!... he has broken 3 of my phones... the last one my samsung 6.. he checks my phone.. and my belongings..
I have to answer his call immediately and need to know all my whereabouts.. I answered a call from a male friend and him thats adultery to talk to another man that is not your husband.

That all goes for me.. for him i cant check his phone.. i have caught him texting and receiving facebook messages.. I had doubts he was in dating website.. and it came to be true.. he disappeared a weekend for work out of the city..but the next day he mysteriously did not answer my calls..for sure it was another woman..later on I find out he was actually targeting a better option for him.. a woman without kids and younger.. she started to send him money in two weeks to help with car expenses and came from another city to meet him.. he wanted to marry her and leave with her.. i found out last week.. because he didn't pay for her rental car and hotel as he promised.. so she threaten him .. if he didn't pay she would call his wife....

I have been married for a month...and have not processed any USA documents.. I am thinking of divorcing this man... he started to look for woman the minute I got married.... need your advice..

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