different mindset

Submitted by Gaynor Reid (United Kingdom), Feb 25, 2016 at 04:48

My dear, I was once married to one of these algerians
He was lovely before we got married, after that he started controlling everything I did and said to others. The thing is we as human beings live according to the rules we are shown when growing up. If for example we have been taught to not hit the other children in school, and respect others, then, to do otherwise for us would seem wrong. My ex husband was not taught this, if the other kids bullied him and he went to his parents - his own father would beat him up for being weak and not defending himself. Imagine the person you adore the most in your life and look to for security does exactly the opposite,

Your father the one that should protect you when you are most vulnerable, just unloving you -disrespecting you as a human being just because you asked for help. This creates a mental twist- they learn from an early age that family so called honour is more important than love for your family members, they put society first- and their society dictates that women are just to be used and your family members are expendable.

The strange thing is because I had a different look on that, my children grew up to love me and hate him, he couldnt understand that, he did not understand that my children are intelligent and can work out that their father had a shit understanding about love and social contacts, they choose to love life not hate it.

For goodness sake my dear, do not go out with this fool that you are dating he is already showing signs ...

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