INDIAN MEN: KUWAIT & INDIA; MARRIED MEXICAN- PERVERTS

Submitted by Rihanna Ri-Ri (United States), Jan 30, 2016 at 01:34

MAYDAY! MAYDAY!

i am serious as the day is long.....every man mentioned in this post is a user, LOSER, opportunist & SEX addict. THAT'S IT. end of story.

DISCLAIMER: unfortunately i have had very bad experiences with opportunistic foreign men who have taken advantage of my kindness, naivete & vulnerability in the name of "LOVE". if i sound angry, sarcastic or outraged, it is *NOT* directed at you i promise....i am speaking openly to address this mangled situation, which is unfortunately all too common.

as for the Mexican guy, the takeaway here is this: illegal, still married (STILL married!! HELLO men really want to have their cake & eat it too, or should i say CHURROS), not only still married, but to a woman from his NATIVE country....it will never change, most men from their own countries will always be loyal to their women & their families.....they think American women are prostitutes, easy sex, easy money, quick vacation.....IN & OUT, that's it. they keep coming back because we're still standing and open for business. and i say this not even as someone who's given much away to the men i've interacted with on seemingly intimate levels. i say this meaning: if u are still accessible (in any way), they will come back time & again to play, seeing what else they can get for free at YOUR expense!

UNLESS they deliver a Shakespearean monologue or something damn close to it in hopes to court you (even then i still stay talk is CHEAP), if the only words they can manage are "vagina" and "anus" (Happy & Junaid, here's lookin at you!) i'm afraid there's nothing more to be gleaned from the situation. if they are being that crass, it is not because they are uneducated, or their English is "weak" or they are trying to initiate some kind of sacred contact and want a bird's eye view, GUESS AGAIN, i implore you. English is the *official* language of India, followed by Hindi. do not tolerate indecent proposals, these men know what they are saying.

as for Happy, he's using an ALIAS. that spells nothing but trouble. there is no future with someone who uses an alias. Happy is using an alias because Happy is perverted, married, hiding a wife & children, his mother and father, and is looking for cyber play because he's feeling trapped in his arranged marriage. Happy is only looking out for himself. Don't be like Happy.

Junaid is a pervert. Junaid is also a sexist, misogynist, coward, deplorable & weak. Junaid is most likely married. Muslims marry young & they are expected to marry within the faith. It is haraam to do otherwise. If Junaid's parents only knew the way he was courting your friend while cheating on his wife, they would have his head on a plate in a pile of biryani. This is not the way one goes about courting another, even during the twilight hours.

N.B.- Junaid lives in Kuwait. We know he is Muslim, which could mean Indian Muslim or Pakistani. Junaid is a fairly common name among Pakistani men (just an fyi). According to Wikipedia: Expatriates account for 70% of Kuwait's total population. 60% of Kuwait's total population is Arab (including Arab expats). INDIANS and Egyptians are the largest expat communities respectively.

Junaid is not isolated in Kuwait, there is an entire Indian community/enclave of which he is a part. He will have had NO trouble finding a spouse, that too of his own ethnicity and faith. These men just want to play. American women are just one dish of MANY appetizers on an entire menu. These men also like Filipinas & Brazilian women (the facebook profiles of many will prove it, trust me.) He is just using your friend for sex on the webcam. The reason people like Junaid & Happy pledge their "undying love" is because they want continual access to live porn & the chance at a VISA, because money. whether it is one or both is immaterial. your friend is being used.

I'm afraid you cannot help your friend and it appears she will not listen. I am not saying to give up on your friend entirely, and you don't even have to necessarily end the friendship per se, but you can perhaps start limiting your contact with her, because the senselessness and tragedy is maddening.

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