I caught him!!

Submitted by Suzie (United States), Jan 16, 2016 at 15:35

Haha ladies!!! And gents!! I finally caught him!! I see some of you ladies are having your guys delete their facebooks....don't. You can use it to find him out if you're suspicious. He can easily get another account somewhere else and then you will have no clue what is going on!!

I was persistent and messaged every girl on his facebook I thought something might be going on with...and one finally got back with me!! He had been talking to her longer than me. I thank God for her!! We set each other free!

I thought because I am attractive and in shape and like sex just as much as him, that he would not be using me for ulterior motives...none of that shit matters...he was just going to see which of us would get him out of his country first. He also spent many hours working with me on how he can get a work visa or study visa, so I felt he was sincere, he did block the other girl in hopes of keeping me...I must have seemed more promising....

So if you've read my other posts, you can see how identical my story is to yours, and now I have my results.
He will say he can't live without you, and be sooo sincere...it's bs!!
And it's possible he would've moved here, we would've married and possibly of been happy...if the other girl had come through first, he could've just as easily been happy with her...that's not real love...

He was open about the fact he wants to come here to earn more for his family (aside from me), and I think there is nothing wrong with that in itself, I told him I would continue to help give him any advice or help on how he can get himself here on a legit visa...but there is no chance of him in and I, of course.

Maybe I'm crazy, but I'm able to set my emotions aside for that...also, I want him to know what he did to me was not necessary...and to feel like s..t...and that not everyone is only looking out for themselves, like him..

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