I am sorry for you

Submitted by Sam (Saudi Arabia), Mar 5, 2015 at 03:34

Juanita and Luigi,

Hi Juanita, i am sam from middle east originally from Pakistan i met and fall in love with American woman and she seems mostly like you, i love her so much.

Luigi, you are right what you said its true as well but there is one very simple thing i would like to tell you there is women who frauds there is women who sleep with many men there is women who dance naked in front of all and there is women who spend her all life in love with one man, doing all to make him happy be worthy, trustful and loving to him forever simply Luigi, in one hand all fingers are not same.

Juanita, my dear your all fare's are right but you need to find answers yourself by trying see what's in his heart and you can test it by many ways if you just try a little listening to others who only listen one side and never mind to listen to the other side and try to know what he is thinking what he want and all. Someone is telling you something and you are going to believe and lost something may you will not find again. Don't do that with your self

Luigi if pointing fingers to other that what all matters then i can say that if that boy is scam or doing something wrong as you think then i can say that Junita is greedy also she is old with grown up kids and 2 times divorce i can say with full of mistakes and she is now very happy to get attracted by a young man who is may be scam but actually making her smile and her time is passing very well so she is enjoying that as well so who is playing with whom??????????????????

Stop talking about those you don't know and you should better left people to decide what they want, even if you want to suggest them something its there rite to decide not that you just write in the last Juanita, you need to end this relationship and be strong about it. Who are you to decide for someone what they do,

You don't know anything about people from different countries and world, i am Muslims live in middle east, Pakistani national what you can tell about me? you can tell that i have finished my university collage and school where we don't even saw a single girl or even a female teacher lol at the time of my collage i use to stop at one shop to have coffee where i saw that girl walking to the street get her collage van and after that 3 months i just saw her walking on the street to get her van until i figure out how to talk to her and one day i find that street is empty and no one was around and after so much affords i find a courage to talk to her and i write my number on a piece of paper to give her that's all i want to talk just give my number and when i tried she start shouting at me and i run away and through my number there after few days i got accident and i get injured badly after some time i get to the coffee shop almost after 2 months when i saw her again she saw me with some bandages and then that night i recieved a call and there is female on the other side asking me who i try to gave my number this time and i was shocked and i am like wwwwwhaaaaatttttt wwwwwhoooooooo aaaaaarrrreeeeee yyyyyyooooouuuuuuu and then i come to know it was her it take me 2 years to date her and find a way how to date her as its not allowed in my country or the country i am living right now it's totally unacceptable for families, people and government to allow girls and boys to meet like that i finally met her i stay in relationship with her 4 years a relationship to see each other from very far and even on that time we have spend most of our attention to the others that they might not see us seeing each other that's how our love story run 4 years with just few kisses and nothing at all i can say we find our self very lucky to even have that few kisses to remember i was in university i was afraid to tell my family because i know there reaction but somehow i tell my mother about it and convince her to take my proposal to her family i received so much negative reaction from my family but i put so much pressure to my family that i will die if i will not have her some how my mother get my proposal to her family and they reject me because i was still in university not have good job not have my own house and etc etc i think i am handsome but soon i realize that, this is not what work when you send proposal for marriage to any girl after some time i find her meeting with someone at a restaurant and i come to know she was already engaged lol i attempt 2 suicides after that start smoking become a very bad person start staying alone most of the time with my bad health condition....it take me 4 years to love someone and another 5 years to come out from that pain which i cannot explain in one comment. we live in a country in a society where you are not allowed to even see girl talk to her or met her anyway....

i am 28 today single for 5 years after she is gone you don't think its a very long time to spend without love or have someone to love ????????????????????? and this stupid heart full of love, want to love, want to live, want someone to kiss passionately, want to tell someone that i cannot live without you and then in somewhere in some way we find someone from different world from different country completely different from me i start talking to her she was nice she understand everything i said she gave me positive respond she help me to get up as a very good friend she did all good for me days passed and i start missing her i want to talk her longer hours late at night i want to open my heart for her and invite her to see what's there and she get in and find me hiding som where there and she get me out from that dark place i start loving her loving her more and more and more

She is old she is divorced and she have kids but what i will do now if that's her i find love with i will kill myself now or kill my love for her or what i will do now if that what i find in my life feels everything to me i will leave her because she is old or something ? or you think i am trying to go with her for better life in US??????? when actually she come to work in a country where i live and work left US back????????

i live in a tax free country rich with oil and gold big houses, expensive cars and tables full with food i am living here with my family since my birth i raised here with full food and all the facilities of life i am working for a very big company in a very good position with good pay drive a nice car liven a very good life ware branded clothes and use latest electronics so trust me on that Luigi even US cannot give me these all things i have here right now but yes i do find that girl from US and that's what all i want its not always about scam or something else change your way of seeing only negative side try to think positive, stop deciding what is good for others and always check the both side of coin before you set yourself somewhere.....

i am sorry if i said more and thank you for the opportunity to write here it's my first time to write something but i believe i did a right thing it may save someone to make wrong decision and lost something they will never find again....

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