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To Olga : It is a curse indeed!!!Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Ana (United States), Feb 11, 2015 at 03:18 Dear Olya, I'm also from Russia originally. Please stay strong and don't let this Turkish clown anywhere near you!!! Anyhow, I want to tell you my story a little bit. I'm 28 years old. So you can see that if you keep this up, you'll be dealing with these crazy men for many more years. You're going to waste your best years on them and not find a husband. I'm sure your parents in Russia will be very happy to find out you're dating Arab and Turkish Muslim men in America. That's exactly what they wanted for you, right? Sorry, If I'm being harsh. I already posted on here about my Qatari boyfriend and the way he treats me… Unfortunately, I can't break up with him. Every time I try, it never ends well. I'm usually in my room crying my eyes out and I can't stop. It's crazy. I need more time to deal with this. I don't know what's with Eastern European women and Middle Eastern men. It is literally got to a point where most of my Russian and Ukrainian girlfriends are all dating Middle Eastern men. My best friend has a baby with a Christian Lebanese guy. Her story is even worse than yours! He'd often get mad at her, wake her and the baby up in the middle of the night and call 911 on her, telling her to get out! She was so happy when she met him. She would always point out to me how he was Christian, not Muslim. When he gets mad, he starts saying he never wanted the baby. He is, of course, always sorry and takes her back and starts treating her "like princess" that is until he gets mad again. So many of my girlfriends are dating or got married to Turkish guys. One of the girls got actively involved with our Russian Orthodox Church since she got married and moved to Turkey. Could it be that life in Turkey is not so good for her and she finally realized that her Christian faith means something to her? Two guys are actively pursuing me at the moment. One is American Egyptian and the other one is a Turkish guy. That is exactly what I need more Muslim men (*insert sarcasm*) Unfortunately, I have to deal with them at work. The Egyptian one has an Arab girlfriend!! His friends always tag them on FB together. He is saying that it is not what it looks like and is asking me to give him a chance. How disgusting! I wish I could tell him what I really think of it all… but I work for his father. His gf looks really nice too. I feel sorry for her! Will they ever stop lying? No one in America is going to protect us. So we must protect ourselves. Arab and Turkish guys love Russian women because we are white and they all have a white women fetish, and we are also from patriarchal society, unfamiliar with feminism for the most part and allow men to have power over us. So they get the best of both worlds. But it can never get serious with them. Ask yourself if you want to get married eventually? Do not let Middle Eastern guys near you. That is one way to protect yourself from them!!! Don't go on dates with them, don't even talk to them haha And try to get yourself an American boyfriend. We live in the US, not in the Middle East. So take advantage of this opportunity while you are young and beautiful! Just try it. Btw, those very few Russian women who got married to American men are very happy. There is a couple in my city who come to our Russian church. They have 6 kids together. Her American man seems like such an amazing husband and a father. He just loves the kids and he adores his wife! Time goes by very fast! Do not repeat my mistakes. I'm still with my Qatari boyfriend and it's not going anywhere. I am wasting my time, but I can't break up with him. Valentine's Day is coming up and I know he is going to ruin it for me. He is not cheating.. I confirmed it. But he is so distant sometimes.. I know he is very busy. I also confirmed it. But it is just not enough. Today he finally added me on FB and IG. I also posted on here about that. He finally added me after a huuuge scandal. And I looked through his posts and I now think he is in love with another woman. Long story.. They are not dating…but he is in love with her. Or maybe not.. Because it turned out he wasn't cheating when I thought he was. And last time we broke up, I called him names. I was racist and rude and inappropriate and he was right, he was not cheating, not with that girl at least. I cried for two weeks, lost 8 kg. I thought I was going to die from broken heart like Giselle lol. He reached out and told me that he was willing to compromise a little and that he really missed me and was also sad without me. I was shocked because he is so stubborn, never explains anything to me! One time he told me, "My life is non of your business". I, of course, took him back. I cried for 2 hours on his chest. I think I've gone insane. Bottom line : We are never getting married. But it has a long-term potential, meaning I can potentially waste another 5-7 years of my life with him because he plans to stay in the US for another 5-7 years before moving back to Qatar. So yes, don't do it. I wish you all the best! Submitting....
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