Name changing

Submitted by Donna (United States), Jan 10, 2015 at 17:13

You already know he is false with the name changing. Poker makes one poorer not richer. If his dad were a powerful man don't you think he could help his son? He got you to tell him all the details of your life but withheld personal of his own. This is a very common way for them to determine your worth as a target. He has already begun to tell you what you should change in your life. Why? What right does he have to tell you to change you, why is he talking to you if he didn't like you just as you are? Personally I don't smoke can't stand the odor or damage it does, but that is your choice not his to make. Your son should be first in your life and sounds as if he is. I would not want a child of mine to be influenced by someone that put such a "emphasis" upon the gambling aspect of his life. He blames the gambling for being poor, meaning he lost all of his money but still sees gambling as a way to make more.

So basically he had in no uncertain terms already told you he has an "addicton". The two week military thing could be his way of explaining times of neglect or could be true. With all the things that don't just send up smoke signals here but a full on blaze, I personally would run for my life from this person. Did you ask what reason he was given for being denied. I myself fell hard for the worst of the worst. His own brother warned me and a whole lot of women sent emails and videos to me, his brother had tried to warn me long ago but I didn't take heed. Mine never showed me any ID but had to see all with me. When the emails and videos from the other women started pouring in the man I knew from Jordan who was palestinian or so he said named abed nickname aboud had the following identitys with the other women.

Abdel,abd,aboud.abood,abed,latif,samer,amin,ameen,mohammed,mohommed,reyad,renyard,mahmood,yosef,and many many more, yes he even used his own brothers names and those of his friends. I got to watch the man that I believed loved me and only me according to him and he swore this as a muslim masterbate in cyber sex with other women. I actually vomited upon seeing and reading all. The way this all came to my attention was he went after a married women flirting and cyber sexing with her, he recorded her but was unaware she did the same with him, several women recorded him. When he threatened to go internet with the one of her, she did something that took more than nerve.She sent to me and upon finding the others which is probably not all but so far in the 40s number, to all of them also. She gave the way to reach me and it began pouring in. I honestly wanted to believe this was faked or photoshopped or something but it was him his words in the emails, his face in the videos which not many options for them to have a photo of him to photoshop without him.

As for the rest of the body I can not say, he only ever discussed marriage, future, babies with me. He was never that way with me. He never tried anything like that with me.I will never understand why anyone would go onto camera and do this for anyone there is nothing sensual or appealing. The emails I read he sent to the other women from email addresses I did not know about, but his brother had hinted he had many many accts, could have been a script taken from the over three years with me. Same words, same order, exactly as said and spoken to me, even the love and marriage parts. He needs new material. I feel pity so much heartfelt pity for this man now. He is such a sad measure of what I believe a man should be, or could be. Why these men do these things, for aboud it was citizenship and money,according to his brother. What he got instead was to make of himself a media sensation laughing stock.This women are passing on to others constantly even though I begged them not to.He lied constantly but to be like that it means he was brought up to be that way. These women that sent this stuff to me, only two seemed hurt to find out from all the others,both of them apoligized to me even though not their fault in any way.

The rest were laughing saying they would continue to play with him.There was only one in this group of females that had known him longer than a yr. She sent me emails that he had sent to a friend of hers whom he apparently dumped because I was a better target, upon the hurt he had done to her friend she began playing him for revenge for her friend and he took her bait, hook,line and sinker, she is married 3 children and in her 40s. This is also the way I found out he had been doing this for over two years before me. His age has went from 41 with me all the way up to 56 with others. I am 27. He said almost daily to me that he looked younger than 41 doesn't he. I never had the heart to tell him no, he looked much older, I always thought because he was sick so much according to him every week something different wrong with him .

Every week he had what he called stomach colds still don't know what that is,headaches,backaches, toothaches that he was simply exhausted we would be on skype I would see the lines in his face and tell him to please get some sleep. Now I know why he always looked exhausted. Online gigilo jobs must be exhausting. I fell for the worst, I pray you won't fall and be hurt as I was. Aboud was also denied a visa even though according to him he had had job offers in the USA,Canada,and France. His family members had already been to the USA his older brother living here for many years, his mother visited. Yet he was denied even on a business visa. I never entered an anger phase as these other women have from the first. I sat and reflected over the years wasted waiting on this person who protrayed himself as the best of men. Even in the end his own family member showed him not to be.

The point is I never knew this man in real, 9 hours and more daily with him over three years except his3 day sulling times when he would disappear. He was all pretend he was exactly with these other women as he was with me except minus the sex part with me, which he could have no doubt I would not have accepted. I can't imagine the mindset of an individual to do these things but he has made a laughingstock of himself. I have never been on fb, any dating site or anything like that. I was playing my first ever online game when met him there it was approx a yr before I would skype with him. No matter what he did he always blamed me for his 3 day disappearances. I ignored all the signs,yes I fell for the image he protrayed. When he told me out of the blue after I knew but had not told him yet, did I know that a computer person like him could put something on a computer to see everything done on that computer.

My response was I have nothing to hide.So why was I attacked in that way without rhyme or reason, because he only saw others through his actions.Sad yes that he turned out to be this person, regrets yes, but never when I marry or have children do I want to marry anyone that my children may see online in that manner nor would I wish them to be carrying the family name of such a person.I feel sorry for the innocent family members that carry the name this man has now tarnished. Don't be another victim please.Look into your son's eyes ask yourself is this the man I really want to be his future influence. I pray for his sake you find your answer to be no. God bless and stay safe.

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