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1000% agree with CleoReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Mei (Malaysia), Dec 15, 2014 at 22:41 What you said is sooo true, I have the exact bad experience with an Egyptian man too. I am a Chinese girl, and I grow up in a multi- cultural environment, among the Malay Muslims, Chinese and Indians. I have befriended guys from this races all my life and know how they behave. I spend 5 years in Australia and befriended many white Australian men. I have so far dated many Chinese and Caucasian men. And I can tell you none of these men, either Malay Muslims, Chinese Indians or Caucasian come near to the only ONE Egyptian man I know. The obvious difference are that all these men are direct, honest, sincere but they don't really know how to spoil their women. Egyptian men know how to spoil their women to bits…but they are dishonest, liars, full of empty promises and unfaithful. My ex- boyfriend from Cairo is highly educated, and his parents and sister are all professionals. He works for a big company and was posted to work in the company that I am working at, as a consultant. His contract was for one year. He approached me in my work cubicle on the 2nd day of his arrival and immediately only after few conversations with him, I realized that this man is an extremely silver tongued man. He came to see me in my cubicle every day, non- stop worshipping me, and making me feel like the most beautiful woman on earth. I started a relationship with him. It was the most passionate I ever had in my life. He treated me like a queen, jump to bring me everything I wish for, paid for everything, never want to see a single tear in my eyes, promised me the sun, moon and stars, professing his undying love. I was his heart, life, soul and spirit…He was just too perfect. I googled searched about Egyptian man and read all sorts of negative views about them…and all of them seem to have the same signature – and everything about him fit the descriptions perfectly. Sometimes I wonder if there is such a school in Egypt training them to be like this. But despite all the warnings from various articles I read, I still stupidly believe my man is an EXCEPTION. We did everything on bed, except real intercourse. He is a Muslim and I am a Christian. But he seem to be like a wild animal on bed, leaving me physically bruised all over each time when we were together. However, his relationship with his family (esp his mom is awfully freaky). He is 30 and yet his mom controls every aspect of his life, to details and he allows her to. He never missed a single call back to Cairo, not even for a day. It's a routine. He got very anxious if he cannot call them. But he never told his family about me. Towards the end of his contract, he got a job with another company in US. He proposed to me immediately with a ring and wants me to go to US with him. Somehow he and his family has Canadian passport (I don't know how though they never lived there). So, I am sure he is not after my money (since he earns more than me), not after sex (else he would have done it to me), not after any green card since he never intend to live in my country. I told him to give me a year before I can join him. After days of begging, he gave in and then promised his undying faithfulness to me while waiting. I flew to the States to be with him twice over a period of 9 months. We connected via Skype and chats daily in which he would moaned and groaned about how lonely and depressing he was and asked me to join him immediately…then after 9 months, he suddenly stopped the chats, the calls, and started to ignore my mails…I continuously write to him and he would reply with a short excuse of being busy. I called him and he would not pick up the phone…I was completely broken, and hurt while he just shut me out without any explaination. Anyway, he finally admitted that he signed up on a dating site, and started series of dating with various women…and I instantly broke up with him. He started to beg for days, being apologizing, and using all the extremely touching words…and my heart started to yield, until he kept saying that he dated because he missed having a woman in his life, because he missed a woman's touch. And he repeated said those white women girlfriends he dated are NOTHING for him, he was just USING them to pass time, but his heart is for me and I am the one he wants to marry. He begged me to go to US and marry him right away. He even bought me the ticket. It was this that made me see he is a selfish person. First, all these American women he was dating might even have invested their heart on him, while he is actually using them. Not even aware he is dating several women at the same time. Second, he cheated on me and expect me to marry him???? He think it is ok??? I chose to leave him. But it pained me greatly, I find it so hard to survive every day without his existence in my life. It has been 2 months now, I am still suffering the pain of missing him and not having him (stupid right?). I don't know why I can easily walked away from guys from other races and moved on easily. But this Egyptian man cheated on me, broke my heart to pieces and yet I suffered so greatly losing him from my life. One thing I learned…it does not matter if they are educated or not, professional background or not, seemed they are full of empty promises and dishonest. They talked about being honorable and yet they are far from it. Submitting....
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