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He Used You For Money; There May Be Other Women---Egyptian Man, Hong Kong WomanReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Nov 17, 2014 at 12:19 Hi Sam: I'm sorry to say that you have been used in the worst way possible. You won't see any of the money you sent to him. Anytime you send abroad, count it as gone forever. Also, I do think it's possible that he is already married and is just using you and quite possibly other women to finance his lifestyle. All of these stories about accidents and emergencies were lies or at least exaggerations to get you to feel guilty and send money. They won't usually ask directly for money, Sam, but try and get you to feel like you have to send it. It's possible he's lying about everything. Sam, it's a red flag that you met him while on vacation. They like to prey on vacationing women because you are relaxed and don't have the kids with you to deal with ect. The facebook drama is another red flag, and a key indication that he has other women as clients to send him money. Of course, Sam, when you them out for their lies, games and scams-----they shout, scream, cry, and most of all---they are the victim and act like they have some kind of claim or right to your money. Another red flag---asking for help with his family to get a flat------Sam, have you considered what this means? What does he mean by FAMILY???---his wife and kids that you don't know about?? Just ask the other ladies on here----married men from abroad have NO PROBLEM taking your money! In May 2014, he urged me to lend him 150,000LE which is around 23000US to buy a flat for his family because the rent of his current flat was a waste of money and the living condition was extrem. I refused on the spot. He dropped the topic after a week of persuading. We remained to talk to each other once to twice a day. He knew he wouldn't get money from you this time. He knew this was past your limit once you told him, and like a good scammer he pulled back but kept on talking to you to keep you around. After all, Sam, you've already said yes once and would probably do so again. They won't just lose someone who's sent them over 12,000 Euros. Sam, this relationship was not real from the start. He meant to do this from the start of everything. There is no love, and no potential for a good marriage. If you want to report this to immigration authorities, you may do so, but otherwise you need to just cut him from your life for good. All he wants from you, Sam, is money. Read through some of the stories on here. I know that in my case a Russian woman told me she loved me in the second e-mail, and I met a woman once on myspace who pulled the same nonsense, crying about needing money for this or that and how her family was mean. If you're going to meet foreign workers on vacation outside of the First World or do international, on-line dating, this is exactly what you can expect, Sam. In 2014, I am counting down the days, Day 256, as we speak, that i can fullfil my dream. All of my friends told me to leave him alone. He is a total scam and warned me not to give him any money anymore. I am confused. He was so genuine a few hours ago. Sam, your friends are correct about his motives. Also, he was never genuine. This whole situation was a sham from the get go. I should have trusted him and not said those words to hurt him and that i shouldn't think he is a bad man, a liar). Sam, if you trusted him, you would not need to ask for advice anonymously on-line from total strangers about a personal relationship. Frankly, you've got NO REASON to trust him he used your for money. Just a few hours ago, he said he would commit sucide. I bet real money he's still around. Also, don't be blackmailed by this nonsense. I always tell people when someone threatens suicide to call the police. Threatening suicide is a just a drama trick they use to get their way. Don't fall for it; REPORT it. Really, Sam, cut your losses and move on. Of course, I'm sure he'll put up a temper tantrum filled and may even blame you like he did before (you love money more than me..WAAHHH!), but be strong, don't fall for this, and post on here as often as you'd like. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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