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I was fish on a hook by an algerian womanReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by Darren Sharrocks (United Kingdom), Nov 10, 2014 at 00:44 hi i am a 48 year old british man, who just may of got saved from a scam. I am a muslim a convert to islam. any way i was contacted by a beautiful young algerian woman on facebook. she added me from a new converts pages there. She is 29 years old and very wealthy. At first i was suspioius because why would a young woman add me etc. So i checked her profile, no city given so i saw her photographs, she had been to england on them so i thought oh ok, she is in england. so i added her to my friends list. with thin a few days i had was in conversation with her on facebook chat and quickly progressed to skype. Now things got interesting i told her straight i was not interested in marriage as i could not afford to keep a wife etc. I told her i had 5 children and was divorced. Yes she seem content to keep in contact. The skype contact kept increasing til they were 3 - 5 hours per day for a about 3 week to four weeks. however this was only during work days sunday to thursday. after few weeks asked if i could write to her and she said no, lets keep it on facebook or email. i thought this odd but left it as it was. I thought may be she was worried about her famlies reaction. never once i thought she had something to hide. Also i must point out i am experienced with a morrocan scammer and their ways as i have been to morrocoo twice. so time passed, till about two weeks ago i asked her how she felt about me and she said she respected me allot, but did not like me in a romantic way. Yet wanted to continue the conversations. well i backed off quick and she contacted me again.. so like a fool i started to do the skype things agains and getting more involved with woman. when i asked her aagain she said no does not like me in a romantic way. so yet again i backed off. The bomb shell next time she talked was that she would like to marry me and if only i was younger and had no children ( i have kids but not living with me ) like a fool t took this as a positive sign, instead of a negative . sure it meant she was thinking of me as possible partner. she know i liked her allot and was positively encouraging me to keep in contact, i mean why encourage a guy who i falling for her not unless she is after a visa or rally like me. i remember once when she gave me her mobile number she never answered, her excuse was that their phone company was bad. It was not she wanted me to chase her. I phoned her to confirm the number was hers, and before i answered she said straight away " do not worry i gave u the correct number", in fact there were other numbers she used. i thought this was strange, has she done this before? clearly so. to cut a long story short. i decided to ask her some questions, ie i am on here with her because she is bored with work, and i help her get through the day, she seemed to want me around allot. also i asked her if i am a stop gap measure till she gets married for real. she of course said no Then she started crying on skype, i thought wow what did i say. i thought she only like me as a friend, why get upset, of course it was a deviced to get me to feel for her more. The next day i contacted her she was still in a bad mood looking very sad, and was treating me very badly on skype. i could not understand it. i felt like a fish on a hook, like i was being played with. i felt very confused, did not know which way to turn,. does she like, me, in way ? is this fake, is this real. so the next day i decided not to speak to her on skype just to think and never go any text from her. so i though i do a ploy and to her i say i was told she was married because she kept to contacting me at work etc. she said she was not, so when had few text, then she said look i want to stop this now, so i thought ok thats it. i have challenged her and she did not like it. it turns out this was not the case and she did want me to keep in contact, but by this time i had unfriended her on facebook.. so i asked around about this woman, to her friends and they said well she was not married, sitll it was fishy. any way i text the algerian gilrl to say ok i was wrong and apologised. she did not like the fact i checked her out and would not accept my apology. i have 5 young childnren to protect and be responsible for.she did not care about that, or the fact i suffer form panic attacks and depression which she knew as i had told her. I had just got a new smart phone, so i was messing with it and sent a picture by mistake to a few of my friends. one was her she texted back she did not like me asking about her and did not want to be friends, well that was obvious lol from the day before lol. i again offer my appoloy she refused and read it straight away saying she did not want me to contact her again. whichi have not done so . The point is this i felt enamoured by the young lady,. i felt like a fish on a hook being played with. i completely misread everything. and i know muslim culture and rules . just be careful they will butter u up, they will give u warm compliments, they will make u feel they are centre of the universe but faceboook conversations will be one sided, she never what i wrote hardly, so i got fed up with it. it hurts like hell to be so foolish, bewared they are very good at this keep away. In my view she wanted a visa, she would of married me and then left. she sort me out for the sole reason. 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