Broken confused Egyptian boyfriend

Submitted by ananda (United Kingdom), Oct 6, 2014 at 06:48

Hi iv come on here to get advise , I met my Egyptian boyfriend 3 years ago while on holiday with my friend . When I go back to the uk we Skype , he asked me to go back but I decided not to fall got his charms . Then a few months later we stated to talk more in Skype , he would say I miss you I want you to come back . So me being a silly girl did and this is where I wish I never had . I went over 7 times and stayed in his home for 2 weeks at a time he was lovely very sweet charming and caring . Then he told me not to drink , I only drank maybe 2 anyway ,and he also starred to tell me what to wear . We had gotten engaged before all these things stared to happen . He told me he love me . When I was in England he would check up on me who , where I was , I just thought I really cared about me , how stupid .

On my last visit this September while he was at work I found a flight boarding pass with a Russian girls name on and black girls hair in the bedroom . I confronted him he told me had no idea how it got there and blamed it in his Flat mate , saying it must be his girlfriend , and swears he never cheat , which I know is a total lie . He also borrowed money of me and never payed me make .u am now back in England feel so used and confused he has total broken me . He said we would marry and promised me the world . I'm trying to be positive but I'm struggling with the lies cheating and heart break . I am a good person and I'm so upset at the way he has treated me , ever though I know it's my own fault for falling for his charms

Thanks Amanda x

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