To: Cindy -

Submitted by RLT (United States), Sep 29, 2014 at 20:59

Dearest Cindy - So GRATEFUL to hear from you and know you are doing well! YAY! Yes, indeed these forums DO 'help' those that need it most when dealing with 'Muslim' men.

You are now living (like you said) a "normal' life - one that has a future - and - a promising one! - - - I am so~~~~ happy for you Cindy!!!!! - - - - - Mohamed certainly was scamming you Cindy - as - Muslim men would never EVER marry a women 27 years his senior - but - ONLY for a "VISA" - "MONEY" and some free 'sex' on the side. These men are living in HORRIFIC conditions with few jobs to spare and the men that DO work make an average of $50.00 per month. - - - In Egypt, these men MUST pay a dowry in order to get married, and it's NOT a small dowry, and also supply his future wife with a flat, etc... - so this is why they seek out foreign women, so to pay their way - so to speak. - - Money is 'key' for them - but - they also want that almighty ticket to America or the UK - etc - which is paradise to them. If they can accomplish that - then they've got it made!

Once they establish residency, they dump the foreign women (who they've always in the back of the mind, viewed as a dirty westerner) and then they petition to bring over their 'virgin' Muslim bride(s) - and if possible, her entire family. It's TRULY sad that these men can look you STRAIGHT in the eye and LIE - LIE - LIE. But this is how they have been programmed. It's as if they were born with a 'micro chip' in their brain that allows them to shut off all emotions and lie when it comes to serving themselves and their respective families. They simply do NOT care! In addition - it is a FACT these men love 'differently' - they can put on the biggest show on earth - and - make you believe 1000% they love you, with every beat of their heart, but - once they get all they need from you - you are gone - OR - if you do travel to Egypt and are in THEIR possession, ALL of that changes. You become their property - LITERALLY!!!!! YOU will serve THEM - YOU will hold you head down and face the ground - YOU will NOT smile - YOU will NOT enjoy life - it's --NOW-- all about THEM and NOTHING about YOU - - least I mention, if you do NOT obey - you will be hit until you get it!

That's how it was for me when I lived in Egypt! However; I was strong enough emotionally and physically to stand my ground and escape back to America! Others in the same situation, may not be as fortunate- - - - But it IS FORTUNATE for you Cindy that you didn't give up much, but your time - which of course was a waste - but - on the bright side - a valuable lesson has been learned. :) NOW - God has gifted you to help others in the same situation but most importantly He has saved you from what could have been the most dangerous and devastating part of your life! I thank God, He took you out of the situation and helped you to find your senses AND - also true 'love.' :) - - - - I must add - however; - be prepared for Mohamed to possibly 'TRY' to walk back into your life. It has been 2 years since my return from Egypt and just 3 weeks ago, my EX left me a message on facebook telling me that if I ever returned to Egypt, that he would have me put in jail because I married him by 'URFI' contract of which he could put me in jail if he liked if I were to ever return. He then stated he took our URFI contract to the airport just in case I returned....Haaaaaa! Then he said - He LOVED ME and that I was HIS wife FOREVER!!!!! Haaaaaaa! These men are LUNATICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - - Just bizaare, as I had LONG forgotten him, moved on with my life and am very VERY HAPPY!!!!!! I did kindly inform him - however - that it would be a VERY COLD day in HELL before EVER I ever traveled to Egypt again!!!!! - and thought to myself - one would have to be INSANE to even consider it - SO~~~ NOT a CHANCE BUDDY!!!!!!! Haaaaaa! -- -****BIG GRIN**** - - -> :D Then of course - I blocked yet another one of his 'FAKE' accounts! But - I am certain he will return again in a few years! Haaaa! They tend to haunt you as if they have nothing better to do. But just so you know - when they are not watching porn they certainly DO have all the time in the world to try to make you never forget them!!!!! They truly are MISERABLE human beings and it is not going to get any better for them in Egypt or the 'middle east' - in fact - and however unfortunate it is - it's only getting WORSE!!!!!!!! So YES Cindy - you have been SAVED - and - you can thank our God - and your lucky stars! - - -

Thanks SO~~~~much for staying in touch - again - I am relieved and HAPPY you are doing well - as I am also doing absolutely WONDERFUL!!!!! :) - Life is GOOD!!!!!! :) :) :) :)

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