Christians Marrying Muslims

Submitted by Rosey (New Zealand), Mar 16, 2014 at 16:15

If you are a Christian you should really be very aware about what marrying a Muslim guy would not only mean to your life in this world but your life when you die. If it is not ok for us to worship false Gods, false idols, false images and so on then why do you think its suddenly ok for the men you may date or marry to do so? Are you truly being led by the holy spirit or just your own carnal/fleshly desires?

He may say to you that it doesn't matter to him whether you are a Christian it's just all about the love and respect that you will have for one another and the very long happily married life. Bullcrap. It does matter to them that you are a Christian and sooner or later his religion rules will creep into the relationship/marriage and you will let it. Western women try to be accommodating, trying not to be judgmental, racists, hypocrites and so on.

Soon enough you can't talk to certain people. You have to delete people from your facebook, your messenger, your phone, give up all your passwords and so on. You can't wear what you use to wear and your culture and your faith, your identity starts to slip away. You become just a shell of what you use to be and then you become totally dependent on pleasing him. Your family won't recognise you, your friends will fall away because you can't hang out with them anyone anymore, yet he will still have all his freedoms. Your money is his money and if he makes money it will be all his and his families. Is that the kind of relationship/marriage you want?

For those getting married in their country whether it's a orfi/urfi marriage which is a bootycall marriage (lets keep it real ladies) you know it's not a real marriage when it's not recognised in any other country but that one. If you had a proper marriage there which is recognised in all countries why are you a Christian having a Muslim marriage? Would he marry you in a Christian church for you when you both make it back to your country? Or would you not impose that on him?

If you don't know what you stand for you will fall for anything. Christian women you are under spiritual attack and you don't even realise it. In the bible it says many will fall away from the faith in the last days. You may say to yourself that you haven't fallen away but look at how much you have compromised yourself. You can lie to others and even yourself but you can't lie to Jesus who sees what's in your heart and mind. Jesus who died on the cross for our sins so that we will not perish but have eternal life. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can get to the Father but through Him. Because Muslims only believe Jesus was just a mere prophet and not the Son of God they will not go to heaven. Jesus said if you deny me before men I will also deny you before my Father. Ask yourself, by marrying a Muslim are you denying Jesus and if you said yes then know He will also deny you?

Don't play around with your faith. Come to Jesus just as you are and really reach out to Him. Let Him heal you from the inside out. Give Him everything, He can take it. Cry, yell, get down on your knees and really seek Him. In the Muslim religion they cannot do this. They cannot freely worship like we do. It's a works based religion where you can go to heaven by the good works that you do. That is not true. Good works do not get you into heaven, Jesus does. Not all denominations that claim to be under the Christian umbrella actually are so becareful.

Don't give up your freedoms for entrapment. Just because a guy says I love you, I miss you, You are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen and sexy, You are smart, I want to marry you, I want to be your husband so you can be my wife, I want to have kids with you and I want them to look like you, I can't wait to live a happy life with you, You are my queen, I worship you, You ruin all other woman for me, I have seen noone in the world with your beauty, I cannot live without you, Without you I will die, Give me a hug, Give me a kiss. Sound famliar? lol. Trick is they have to tell you this so often that it overwhelms your senses and reasoning. You can say brb i'm going in the kitchen and when you get back all the compliments come again. Bible says of all things guard your heart. Don't fall for their serpent lies. To them words like this just roll off their tongue.

To the women getting involved with married muslim men just because they are unhappy and shed afew tears. *Raises eyebrow* Really? lol. Thou shalt not covet. That shame is all on him until he tells you or you find out on your own and still be with him anyway then that shame is on you. I know this is a long one but I have been reading every single post for a week now and I have afew more things to say.

Egypt, Morrocco, Tunisia, Jordan, Turkey and all those other places are too far to go for a bootycall. You are just another concubine to them who they can manipulate and control. This is afew things that the Quran says about women.

- Menstruating women are unclean and men must stay away from them - Women are mens "fields" and they can have sex with them whenever they want - Men are superior to women and have authority over them while women must obey men or risk being beaten - A woman is worth one half of a man and men are above women - Men may marry up to 4 wives, including prepubescent girls and own sex slaves - Muslims are not allowed to marry non Muslims, unless they later convert them to Islam - Women must cover themselves and and only be seen by relatives, slaves and children who have not yet had sex with women.

The attitude that is retained that women are inferior to men and are their possessions to be treated accordingly. Whether or not a master is exhorted to be kind, fair and just to his slaves, the fact of their slavery still remains. If you fall in love with them and have sex with them they will not respect you because they think if it was easy for them to get you into bed then it will be easy for any man to get you into bed. Adultery is always the womens fault, we make them do it that's why the women are stoned and held accountable but never the men. They will never see you as an equal no matter how much they whisper it in your ear. A young 30 something muslim guy who seems bright, respectful, tolerant, open minded, loving will eventually grow up to be an older muslim which are very dangerous, selfish and unloving.

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