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check for signsReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by once bitten twice shy (United Kingdom), Dec 4, 2013 at 17:19 I recently found myself in a similar situation like most women on this blog. Broken hearted and annoyed that i didn't listen to my self conscious and advice of friends. Not long returned from egypt after my 4th visit to my egyptian lover who swore he wasn't married and even convinced me i was his first love. Yes like many others was blown away with this egyptian charm and fell hook line and sinker. We remained in contact for 1 year after my first visit which developed into a strong online relationship which resulted into me visiting him again and again. On my last visit Whilst there after paying for absolutely everything even down to his tobacco daily intake i discovered a few hidden mistakes. Firstly double room booking which i understood was necessary as we're not married which apparently his friend requested, But actually was not required as his friend manages hotel and already accepted we'd be sleeping in same room. This extra room my lover insisted on was so that he could make private calls I assume. Second thing was after a little dispute he decided he'd sleep in this second room this night as such i woke early and although not proud found his wallet and went through it to find pictures of two children i assume are his along with s couple phone memory cards I didn't have the guts to view. Forgive me for the long winded story but feel i need to express these feelings of sadness. Next was his pants that i folded which were London brand so i know these were a gift from another women along with the same brand shirt he happened to say was a gift from a male guest in hotel he works only 2 days prior to discovering the underwear. I confronted him to be told he brought the pants locally! Last but not least 2 days prior to departure the manager of the hotel we were staying asked if he could give up the second room through overbooking. He obliged but was his biggest mistake as meant he had to move all his belongings into my room but suspicion got the better of me so went through his bag whilst back was turned to discover a second phone he'd hidden from me. (Explains all the secret calls he had to make in his room to so called hotel manager where he works) after a massive argument and persuasion i eventually got him to log into phone so i could check before being told i am crazy and out of my head. I found many texts to women and photos. My only mistake was I didn't check WhatsApp because I simply seen enough and was in a deep sorrow by this point. After much pain and tears he then used his trump card and faked a heart complaint to win back my emotions and great concerns for his welfare along with much emotional blackmail. I returned home very confused and bewildered after 1 year of almost daily contact and love jibs and compliments to realise what a fool i have been. He never asked me for a penny but somehow through gentle manipulation he conned 15 hundred pound out of me throughout the Year one way or another through my caring and loving nature. Morale of the story is don't listen to the charm and constant love talk because it really is just talk and they'd do anything to win you round and convince you their love is real when actually they repeat this to many women visiting them regularly after you have left. This is the majority of men in tourist industries so please ladies listen to your gut instincts and don't fall for the charm. I'm deeply saddened but somehow relieved because i don't need to waste another moment or dime on his fool instead i can put it on the long list of mistakes in my life and hopefully learn by it. Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments". Reader comments (21923) on this item
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