Married to algerian ... Warning

Submitted by Angelika (Sweden), Nov 23, 2013 at 17:40

First of all I would like to say I am a Muslima as well. So he don't behave like that because I am non Muslim. I am 34 years and he is 33. We have 3 kids together. And I have a daughter from before. We got married in Europe 2008. And at that time he was here without papers. His family is living in next block to us. And I have been living with theme for the first 2 years, after he came back to Europe. He needed to go back to Algeria for 6 months so we could apply for his papers.

At that time I was pregnant with our first son. I was in love with him because at that time he was still nice. But everything changed when he came back with the paper. He started to hit me and watch dirty movies. As well when I was pregnant with his second child. A boy again. His parents was telling me it's my own fault. He didn't work in this 6 years of our marriage. Stays out the whole day and is a biiiig liar. He build a house in Algeria and his dream is to go back there. But the worsed nightmare is his coldness. His egoism. His comparing and his complaining non stop. It's a living hell. And it's getting worse. Am living in a loveless marriage. No sweet words. Calling me bad names.

Pls stay away from those men. They are all so sweet in beginning. But trust me it's just for some time till they get what they want. He take me for granded. He make difference between his kids and my daughter. Even I tell him all what he is doing he tell me am crazy. If I could turn back the time 6 years I would. The only thing that I would miss from this would be my kids. Stay away from theme they are a huge pain in the ass.

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