Planned from the Beginning?----6+ Years Relationship and Relationship Being a Secret

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Oct 7, 2013 at 11:24

Anna:

I think you need to face the possibility that this is what has been planned by him all along. I realize that 6 years is a long time and that some folks like to say "well, I've been married for X years..." but really, liars and scammers can be very patient and will wait years to get what they are after regardless of how much you love them and in at least one case I can think, even go out of your way for them.

A relationship, especially a marriage, should not be a secret .That's a big warning sign. Often times, the issue is the relationship is shown off by those who are insecure about it and/or want special attention, but having one shrouded in secrecy is also a problem.

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