Hamid,you are absolutely right!

Submitted by Michelle (United States), Sep 9, 2013 at 11:28

Thanks for putting that Up hamid. I was in the same situation but a bit different. I met Omar when I was in a club with some friends. He approached me and I thought okay he's pretty cute. So I asked him are you Muslim because I do not date Muslims. He said to me know I am Christian. I somewhat didn't believe him so I did my own thing and kind of ignored him but he chase me all over the place in the club. I was about to leave but he ran up to me with a paper and pen asking for my number.( He literally chased me down.) He constantly called me Gave me beautiful Compliments. I have to admit I was intrigued by this guy but I have cute he was in his Cute Wanting of knowledge of English. I did find out he was Christian and we went to a Christian Church. I even met his Friend Who is Palestinian but Christian as well.

Anyways he took me home to meet his "Muslim" Mother and brothers. I have to admit they were extremely nice to me but the mother would always say to me. "You Mary Omar soon okay?" Of course I just ignore that it would nod yes and smile.lol. His youngest brother seems very very sweet. Overtime I would Constantly be with his family and I started noticing things like if I were anything revealing the mother or Omar would start trying to cover me. I would just actually laugh out off. Summertime I started to notice what con artist these people were the mother she did everything the cooking the cleaning even taking out her own garbage. I also started to notice how very lazy Omar was.. You're absolutely right, it I didn't know anything about Islam and the culture. Had I known I would have NEVER gotten involved with his family. This is where I don't agree with you most Western women do not know about Islam and these men Chase us down so Hard it's almost impossible to slip away. Anyways Omar was very lazy and couldn't keep a job. I noticed his brother it was a very hard worker, Always kept a job. He has a virgin fiance waiting for him in Iraq yet he goes to clubs and dates other women too. I am attractive and it's not hard for me to find a boyfriend.

But by the time I found out how these people were I was in a bit of a trap. Mr own me money and I kind of set around and waited for that. Stupid idea I know but I did want my money back. One night I got so sick of this bull crap that I kept telling him I was broke and he would always want to go and do something.. He would constantly call me telling me he missed me soo much and love me and needed to see me.. I know I would have at least 20 calls from him a day and he would even call me at night at 2 in the morning about 5 times in a row even when I had to get up at 6 a.m. For work. If I didn't answer the phone he would accuse me of being with another man this is always a red flag of a man cheating on you, That I found out later. I can never go into a store alone he always had to follow he wanted to be wherever I was going. What does it go out with some girlfriends of mine when night and he wanted to go too. They were going to pay my way because they wanted to see me.. He had no money so he couldn't pay his way. He got furious at me because I wanted to go without him for once.( Plus like I said he was always broke.)

This was the straw that broke the camels back. I was tired of him and he's using family I wanted out and I wanted to get away. I had found out that Omar was cheating on me with several girls one was a lady who is 10 years older than me and Was not attractive. He was using her as a sugar momma. Like I said I wanted out so that night I confronted him by my vehicle and told That he was a liar a bum a cheater and a thief!That I was done! He shoved me up against my car grabbed my throat kicked me in the leg so hard and called me a f****** b****! He started on a rage he jumped in my car try to take off with it jumped out of it told me he was going to f****** kill me! Luckily I had some witnesses some men were behind me and they told him to leave me alone! They called the police. He took off with his cell phone And was speaking Arabic to his brother walking furious I could hear it in his voice. I also found out that he has stole a family heirloom of mine which is my mother's watch which was from the 1920s because her grandmother had given it to her.Thank God the police were able to get that back for me I was very lucky. I put a year's restraining order on him and took him to court the judge found him guilty. He told the judge To not send him back to Iraq because if they did they would kill him.

I eventually found out that this could be true. Even with all that he was not even supposed to contact me not even through third-party. He did try to contact me on holidays so that I can order the messages. I just ignored him because I knew that any kind of message he got for me only gave him hope to get back into my head. Plus we weren't even supposed to be contacting each other I could have called the police but I didn't believe a piece of paper would protect me. If he runs into a family member of mine he will ask about me, He is an absolute freakin nut and so is his family.Omar owes me over $2000 But I don't care anymore.I am just so happy to be away from that drama! These people know how to get money out of you by putting you in awkward positions.Putting pity trips on you. Which in the end are nothing but lies..

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