Exactly closure

Submitted by Becs (United Kingdom), Aug 29, 2013 at 03:26

Yeah they are all lying scum who clearly just use us western women.. I am angry at myself I never listened to my instincts all the way along!! As you say we gave them chance after chance to come clean but it doesn't work and they play each woman against the other!! He did the same thing telling me I was all his world that I complete his life and he wants to get married blah blah all the same time seeing someone else and prob telling her the same.. And yes taking her to the same places also like yours did.. It really hurts! Seemingly told her I was his ex and jealous and controlling so this was his excuse if ever I got in touch!! But luckily before I contacted her she had found out for herself what he was like by finding stuff on his phone from dirty women and dirty pictures!! So I think this helped then her believe my story plus we then forwarded proof to each other of screen shots from messages he was sending us both so we had concrete proof and this time he could not lie to get out of it which if course he tried!!! Tried telling me he was so sorry he broke my heart she meant nothing he wants me to go and marry him blah blah!! But of course this will never happen!! I never want to see him or Egypt again!! I did really piss him off though!! I used to work for the same company as where he works when I lived there.

So I decided to email his big boss!! I put it in a professional manner but basically advised that this colleague was using his position in work to meet women.. I explained he got one young girl pregnant and this happens often and only a matter of time until a major complaint or one girl is under age etc.. He took my complaint seriously and fired my ex!! Of course he went crazy at me begging forgiveness as he wanted me to email back his boss!! Suddenly now he contacts me everyday but when she was there I never heard from him!! I know he will find another job and carry on like he did before but I feel slightly better thinking he got some comeuppance the lying cheating idiot!! Just a shame that now I could never return to Egypt as for me now it's tainted!!! I hope one day we look back at all this when we are stronger and happy and thank god we broke free!!!!

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