Egyptian men/why we allow them to destroy our lives

Submitted by Sexy eyes (United Kingdom), Aug 20, 2013 at 03:58

To Isis I have written many post on here, replying to people's comments/advice etc.... And I feel I'm repeating myself and being urged to go no further.... I made that decision myself over a situation.. All the pointers u have listed have not and will not be done, us women do I strength some more than others. I decided to go on a dating site after being single for some time and enjoy going on dates, seeing friends etc, nothing to serious as I been with someone since I was a teenager, so for once just enjoy going out...

This Egyptian guy on his profile had his old hometown in the UK on it and until some weeks after I gave him my Skype addy was when he told me where he was, well he had too as it had Egypt on his details.. Again I will go through what's occurred 1). We spoke for many weeks 2). He said he was falling in love with me by week 3 which put me off a little 3). He has uk passport and citizenship and is from a wealthy family with businesses etc 4). Yes I have seen all paperwork 5). He wanted me trust him especially after I saw he was on a particular site and I don't agree with that, 6). I started to read about Egypt in general and saw many blogs on likes and dislikes of Egyptian men which somewhat made me at arms length although I don't believe in stereotyping and giving people chances.. As I said before UK men can be just as bad. 7). A friend of mine made a fake profile and found nothing on him he spoke of me and the last 10yrsvof being in UK. 8). He told me about a women that had fallen for him waiting for him to come back to be with her but he saying he doesn't feel That way towards her. 9). So I thought ok he said me so let's see. 10). I have met him several times as he came over to see me. 11). I then do another fake profile myself and saw a comment made which looked slutty, and messaged the girl to friend her. 12). She then tells me they are close, having a online relationship since march, and hopefully setting life together. 13). I confront him and he didn't like it if course telling me that I came along and he didn't feel like that towards her. But what has pushed me away is this was two weeks ago then she tells me after four days of not hearing from him he tells her he wants to be friends. 14). He thinks I made something out of nothing but doesn't quite apprehend that he had both of us saying the same thing and why would she lie. Right up till last week and had I not found out then what..so because he didn't see it as a problem he barely spoke to me and now he upset cos the trust has gone.... Well yes if u do that sort of thing. Everyone would have different opinions in whether they would stay or leave a guy like that be it foreign or British. It's unacceptable. He is now in UK, but don't feel I want more as he could do it again despite he deleted his profile... Part of me believes he isn't the type but been down there. As for money after what my ex done there is no way no how. Apart from the Internet and chats he hasn't displayed anything as he is back to work tomorrow

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