stay away!

Submitted by sara (United States), Aug 17, 2013 at 19:24

Wow kristain, thanks for coming on here and sharing your story. It seems clear to me (and I hope it is crystal clear to you) that you are much better off without such a macho dominating unreasonable and on top of that deceitful, man. How many strikes can you ignore? the rule in relationships is always: if something seems wrong, it is. Trust your instincts (and not your emotions and insecurities). Unfortunately there are too many of us out there who respond to dictatorial behavior and mistake it for caring when it is simply control and abuse.

Remember that if you accept him back,he has even more power over you than before as you have admitted that you will accept such derogatory behavior. that means it will only get worse.

Do yourself a huge favor and unplug your skype, disconnect him from every device and find someone who is respectful considerate and trustrworthy.

Good luck and stay strong!

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