Egyptian men

Submitted by Gem (United Kingdom), Aug 10, 2013 at 02:58

Glad it's all over.... At not one point in all my posts have I said I have been taken in by this ..... Yes my eyes are open and like said before in seeing no different to what I would be told if many other man..... It's true......yet not one person is able to give any specifics which is what making me laugh on hear.... Yes you all say he scammed a marriage, haven't many at some time to get to another country. I know someone right now looking for love to get to the states. He has his visa, passport, citizenship etc and his job. Yes he has wife and kids in Egypt but so do most. As I said before I came on this as I googled Egypt in general and saw many blogs on these people, and to someone like me and others it does look like broken women who got upset and making sure everyone knows it.... I'm saying there are still good too... And u have to allow people to talk and show before u jump on them judging them. And u would have also seen if money is what he wants then he will have hard time getting it...... So far what ive heard is standard....what he does is no different ..... This is where we all sit and think what's the difference..... Ok here it goes again two men English have been shit to making me wiser..... The second was the worse, I fell for the lies ie job, family etc, we were looking for a home so he cloijedv while I sorted myself where I was, he came back with excuse after excuse, he was in chat sites for years accusing me of cheating but because he bullied and I had a child I was too focused on baby to give a damn. I also worked and found myself paying out for everything as he always said he had no money, I was slowly picking up what was going on till he pushed me too far, I would forgive him and put up with his nastiness.. Moved back to my home town he came with me and u became a victim of domestic abuse he emptied my bank account and there for I have nothing, apart from a council house and job. I have spent alot of time at groups to learn about me and stuff like that, and to be honest I feel like wrecking his life by writing blogs on him, and I dare say other women do but they don't .......... So I ask what is the difference..... If all the red flags people mention are not there.

That's why I'm annoyed as I do know many Muslim men with or without Muslim women. You are all second guessing because that's the majority that do which means you are all stereotyping. I feel sorry for those who have been taken for everything, it doesn't mean anything unfortunately. And neither dies it mean I will for for his lies neither, I'm not at that stage of believing because of the crap I have had but then again how many men have I come across talking about sex or on a site fun, quite alot .... There u go ..... Tell me something else ..... These blogs are very harsh and too many opinions, and to me and others we could look and say its people who can't handle being dumped..... Sorry but it is... I'm simply saying u can't judge people .... Shame because I'm not in a relationship with this person yet u still make him out like others without really knowing, listening. Etc. all this is quite useless yes an eye opener but ....

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