I would like to know..

Submitted by Becs (United Kingdom), Jul 13, 2013 at 03:07

Hi sky I have been reading your posts and don't see an email but would be interested on an update.. Don't worry about people if they are bored they just don't have to read it.. Most are on here because we are going through the same thing or have done already... I am only just broken up from my Egyptian bloke.. And it's very hard and painful and he too did a cruel exit just ending it all as if I mean nothing and that is what hurts the most.. I often think would he do it like this if we had of been married or had kids.. Just tossed me aside like garbage!!

The answer probably yes.. My Egypt man always said he loved me as I was etc but over time was trying to change me, mould me into what he wanted.. Kept pushing the Quran onto me saying all British tv turned us against Islam.. And if I read the Quran I would change.. I explained from the beginning and time again that I did not want to convert and never would.. But I think he got pressure from family and just believed over time enough chipping away he would.. But I never. He would always make me feel guilty when he found out one of his friends wife had converted how much respect he had for them blah blah.. I didn't care this was me and I was like it when he met me... But he did crush so much of my confidence over the years because I lived with him so had all this day in day out.. Had the crazy side of him which most men can hide when it's just Internet or a short holiday..

Most don't see the true colours until its too late and they are married.. So we should be thankful if they can be like this with us now.. Imagine how crappy it would feel if we were 10 years into it and they tossed us to the side without a care.. I am sure your heart is broken as is mine but we have to walk away and rebuild our lives.. Keep in touch and post whenever you want I check this most days.. I think they block email addresses being displayed which is a shame but maybe for the weirdos there may be.. Ha ha Becs :-)

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