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my daughter is in love with a supposedly NON practicing Muslim American born boy , are they ever non practicing? is he fooling herReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by marianna (United States), Jul 5, 2013 at 11:53 So she has been going with him for over four years now, He is immature but respectable and I dont know if he will be able to fill the sacrifice in work to support role yet. he is going to school he says and is working, but i dont really know this. My daughter says she does. HE has NEVER shown to her his family home here in st louis till when most recently his parents moved back to Iraq with his sister of 21 yrs and his brother of 8 years Apparently they planned to move for a while cause of financial difficulties. but now that his parents are gone, she is able to see his home, before this he never allowed her to ever come close nor to ever speak to his parents or sister, He has three bothers here that do talk to her. The two have had kids out of wed lock and are planning to stay here also. She was never allowed to ever socialize with his family ever, We basically know nothing of his family except what he chooses to tell us. In one way it is a good thing i guess that they will never come back, She says she loves him and he shows us he loves her and always tells us that he doesnt care what his parents think. Oh is that why he never let my daughter go close to them ever while they were here, Listen i know the Islam agenda. turn as many to Islam or beat your wife, I dont think he would ever do so but hey. sally fields husband in Not without my daughter was an angel also until he went back to his homeland, which i know my daughter after seeing this movie many times will NEVER do. we wont allow her to first of all and if she has a child no effen way...Second of all , though, he had first agreed to a christian wedding in our church four years ago and now it changed to not in the church but an outside wedding with a justice of the piece performing a greek wedding with crowns etc. HE did say though that he will get baptised in our church in order to marry our daughter, but how credible is that, he could care less about the actual meaning of it, i believe and he said he is doing it just to make us happy and to be able to marry my daughter and for their kids to be saved also and he has never never told her she cannot bring their kids up in church I just dont know , though. What does my gut feeling say, i say it says that he has interest in still being close with his family even though they are not here, my daughter now, could care less to have anything to do with them yet she will NEVER go to their country EVER nor will her child they discussed this already. So whatever else is in store for her, i feel kind of ok with it, as long as they dont ever go there HE says he never practices or has practiced Islam and cant ever get into it being brought up here in the USA he considers himself no religion even though he has come from a Muslim home, and strict sharia background as his parents have been but his mom he says for years here wore makeup never wore the black thing nor a scarf, never, so i dont know what to make of this.. I feel sad and i do see him respectable but how do i know this is not a front of some type, we dont know anything about his other life , My daughter does and should that be enough, he really seems to be respectable to us and to her and my family members, he is not a fanatic nut of ISLAM nor did he get mad at us when we all wanted to see NOT without my daughter the other day in front o the whole family nor did it bother him, I dont get it deep inside, But given this and given the way my daughter is not doing what is right in the eyes of God being married in front of God in church but having a retired priest that performs Greek weddings in a justice of a piece setting with all the trimmings if we want it, i can say that God is there and putting the crowns on their heads is constituting union of some type and because she has her faith and says, mom i cant make him just like he cant and never will make me muslim, this is the best way and i know what i believe and it is between him and Jesus and God in the end and as long as i never go back there ever or let him ever take our child cause i told him it would be the end of us, he knows this now, i have nothing to fear. I will never renounce Jesus and I just want you to be happy for us. But really i cannot be with all my heart cause i am afraid for her.. I know she is not stupid but in time living with someone maybe just maybe one day she will say oh what the hell, he is ok he has shown me trust why dont i ever go back to show his family our kids, well because you would of not converted so that right there is a death trap especially with an american passport you will have with you if you ever go back there, Times there are so nuts , his own family probably will be justified if they wanted to be lying once she gets there if she doesnt convert and if he decides to never let her back with her child , to possibly get or have her get lost some how, over there especially Sharia law, will not think twice about that , look what they do to women in the streets, stone them to death, bury them to their waist in mud and kill them for not abiding to the law. Their law not civilized law. my God, I am so scared and my gut feeling is saying to stop this anyway i can yet she is not a baby and he is good to all of us but i just dont feel comfortable. i know one thing, though, that if he changes if he hurts her if he pressures her if he trys to brainwash her if if if, she is smart she knows no matter what she has nothing to fear and can come back home with us any time with her baby or babies and we will do what we have to to get rid of him and help her if it comes to that, he will be sorry if he ever hurts her in these ways but i pray that he never changes to please his close friends or family here or that if she doesnt convert that they target her or hurt her somehow , I get that this religion is nuts and so fanatic they will stop at nothing till they get everyone they can converted. if anyone wants to e mail me please do so at acropmarbl at a o l dot com so i can see your advice Submitting....
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