truth

Submitted by hafsa (United Arab Emirates), Jun 22, 2013 at 13:59

I am married from seven years with Egyptian and I was shocked from first day he come to Poland to me that he looked after women all the time in my presence. I thought that He suppose not to do that and I asked and asked him but he just did not care. Now we live in Emirates but he spends all the nights with friends and when he is at home he watching TV or sleeps.

When I told him that his friends treat me like I am someone worse then them and it hurts me he just took their side.. and always he is on other pplz side. Even outside home he showing by words in front of all pplz that he is displeased with me, that I shouldnt say or do sth.. even make fun of me- like I am not his wife. Sex is the only time I hear sth nice really from him, but still he let me know that I am noit that good. like in everything I am not good enough. My cooking is bad and it must be Arab food, I became fat after second child (what is not truth, I am far from fat but of course with time I am not 23 any more), I am not responsivle, I am stupid, I am sico- I hear this every day. I cry but this not affect him not he cares really.

And now I can not go back home because no one want me to back with children and live with them. I stay alone at home, become muslm as I love the religion but Arabs r far from true believe even they claimed they believe. I feel so lonely no support for me from him nor from selfish wives of his friends. If they dont like sth just ignore me no reply me even and then talking to my husband in Arabic in front of me and when I tell him this 'YOU R STUPID" this is his answer, but if any man say sth polite to me this wives directly become arrogant towards me. I am so tired. I am so lonely. I do not advise any woman to marry Arab specialy in their 'pseudo muslim' countries. If you marry stay in your counrty.

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