warning to ladies

Submitted by Ghostbuster (China), Jun 19, 2013 at 03:04

I guess all ladies should be more self confident and be able to know their own strength and weakness. And be realistic!

Sorry to say, but we all know that men attracted to young sexy women. Why on earth twenty something or thirty something handsome guys want to date and seriously in love with 40s or 50s women? Not to mention if the women are just average looking.

Of course, there's always exceptional, but the chance is very little. The cases that an older woman marry a younger guys, and they are happily married do exist. But that story is just one in thousands.

Every woman love sweet talks, loves to be adored and needed. And unfortunately some heartless guys from poor countries use this chances to approach those vulnerable ladies. This is not only about Muslim men or anything. But mostly because of their nationalities. Nigerian, Egypt, .. name it!

Since this is a topic about " Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men

so I would like to highlight some questions :

1. if you\'re not a muslim woman, why you want to marry a muslim? How are you going to raise your kids?

2. Marrying people from different culture means that you have to embrace the new culture. Will you be ready to embrace muslim cultures? ( which is male dominated, and you have no freedom at all)

3. Do you think it is worth to give up your faith (christian, catholic, whatever) and embrace Islam - a religion that don't even respect a monogamous marital relationship. If you think that's not a problem, another question to ponder is : will you be willing if you husband remarry and his 2nd, 3rd, and 4th wife? (in islam it's legal to have up to 4 wives)

4 no matter how rich and financially independent you are, why you as a woman want to pay for your guy? Not to mention that actually you already smell something fishy and you feel that guy only want your money. if what you need is sex and sweet words, having a short term romance with gigolo is better than to invest your heart in whatever that sweet relationship is offered. Less trouble, at least!

Just my thought. Perhaps I'm too blunt. I myself is in my 40s, and I got my lessons with those love scammers. And now rather than wasting my money for those exotic sweet talker, I prefer to use my money to make me stay slim and young to boost my confident.

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