To Cindy - Keep Moving Forward - :)

Submitted by RLT (United States), May 28, 2013 at 23:59

Dearest Cindy ~ Thank You ever so much for taking the time to update us on your most recent encounter with Mr. Egy. I must say, I grew somewhat concerned after a week of not hearing from you and hoped that you hadn't fallen victim again to his whims.

I'm more then just happy Cindy - I'm ELATED - to know that you are 'finally' finished with this 'Jack Of All Trades', and I can certainly empathize with your anger and frustration regarding his newest 'lady friend' rendezvous. However; now you know - this has always been just a game for him - but - I pray the ball is no longer in his court. I understand Cindy- it's not easy to let go of someone with whom you felt you loved - but 'real' and 'healthy' love does not play out like it has for you and this man. You ARE worthy of a healthy relationship Cindy - we all are - but first you must start believing this. One of my own personal theory's is - 'You choose who you think you deserve' so in other words - if you feel you deserve a nice man, who is well balanced, sincere, honest, respectful, kind, etc…Then that is what you WILL get, and no one should settle for less.

Cindy, while I was in Egypt - living with this man - reality set in - and it didn't take me long at all to figure out that this man based our entire relationship on deceit. I was to him - ONLY his PROPERTY - his cash flow. While beating me emotionally and physically into submission - he would tell me - "Go ahead and try and call the police" - "You are MY wife and they won't do a damned thing to help you, I'll show them our marriage certificate" Oh Cindy - I could tell you incident after incident while living in Egypt - from being in a Egypt hospital - (scary) - to being locked down in a flat! It's simply - endless!!!!! But - needless to say - I have since returned and have cut this man from EVERY angle of my life and am forever grateful that I still have a voice to share my story - a voice that I hope will help others contemplating a relationship with a Muslim man or for those who has escaped the hands of one. Grieve as you need to Cindy, but remember - life is short - so very short - so do your best to move forward (sooner rather then later) - in a positive direction. "Pray" - "Smile" - "Rejoice" - and be 'Thankful" you did not spend thousands of dollars on this man and also that you didn't find yourself IN Egypt!

While in Egypt, I learned much about the culture of this third world country Cindy, alongside their lifestyle and mindset. A mindset that mimic's their prophet Muhammad who has no doubt successfully twisted their sense of morality and distorted their sense of humanness. And - if one wants to go even deeper - I personally believe this religion/culture/country links itself to terrorism. Yes - I also witnessed "death' and listened to people being shot and killed right outside the flat of which I was in. Hearing knocks on the door and listening to the cry's of the Egyptian people asking if anyone knew where the 'body' was. So Cindy - I pray you will begin today and focus on yourself - and the unconditional love of your family and friends, but most importantly the Love of God - who is with you today and through all eternity.

Please Cindy - you are important to me and everyone here at "Daniel Pipes" - We want to know how you are doing, so please stay in touch. We are here for you always - Much Love to you!

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