Personality change.

Submitted by Danniah (United States), Apr 4, 2013 at 10:08

Sounds like my left over. He was good at first treated me like a queen. Lovvvved my family. Also talk about me to his mother while I'm listening, but I couldn't speak Arabic, I heard my name so that was good enough. The problem was I couldn't bow down to his request. I could not even go out to my front yard. I can stay home all day but his jealousy was too much. His unsecured personality started showing up.He would scan my phone to see if I was talking on the phone. Much to his segrin, he was wrong. The only number he wanted on the phone was his, my mom and my brother, also have my son of course. I work in public where I have to talk to people. Somebody, text me wished me Merry Christmas, he got sick and run a fever. I was on a register getting checked out, i was on the phone with him,he heard a mans voice which is an 85 years old cashier male,my Algerian man told me to moooove to a different register. He did not like the man asking me how I am. Greetings, Which is a common courtesy to western. He has been here for 9 years. He knows the costume,so there's no excuse for him to be like this. I treated him with respect. Sorry if I sound bitter, I've just just never been to this situation before. If you look at my first letter November 19. No doubt that he loved me. He treated me like a queen at first, treated my mom like a queen, bought me flowers, gave my mom gift.

Looking at it now, he was making his way to bite, as soon as he gain trust.this will give him a license to manipulate.I'm just glad it's over. I will not go back to that situation again. Keep tip toeing maybe it will work out for you in a long run.but I know this. Once a Muslim,always a muslim they are all the same. No partial, no maybe, sooner or later that misogynistic personality will come out. No doubt. not go back to that situation again.

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