I FEEL SORRY FOR ALL THOSE VICTIMS SARA

Submitted by Mesfiwi Said (Morocco), Mar 2, 2013 at 08:15

Mrs Sara , We don't judge the teachings of any religion according to people's bad actions and sick manners because those persons represent themselves and are responsible for their own acts !! I have mentioned that the religion itself condemn those acts of those persons , i have called those persons jerks and cowards and cheaters and sinners and all the vocabularies that should be used for that this kind of persons . Is what has happened to those women victims didn't happen to them before with men they have met in their own countries ? with men that belong to the same culture and background and speak the same language ...? of course it has happened and they all have been involved in previous relationships and marriages ..were those men different ? were they predators or not ? were they not bad ? your answer will be Yes they were ! so what we condemn here is the act of every person regardless of their race or culture or background , that was my point .

As I said before men are no different than other men. It does not matter race or religion. There are bad apples in every bunch and good apples in every bunch. When a woman is scorned, what is the first thing she will go after? She will attack what is different. In my opinion that is how stereotypes start, when people feel threatened they attack what is different.

All marriages & relationships can have its ups and downs and race or religion doesnt have anything to do with it. I have seen good marriages bad ones. You are responsible for your choices and when you make decisions about any relationship make sure you will consider all the differences in cultures and all the barriers and the age difference ...don't fool yourself . Every relationship takes work and communication is main key that is how you will understand who you are going to spend your life with and make sure of how he thinks and what are his expectations he might lie and pretend but you should be smart and never rush and jump into any relationship in which you already know that so many things will be against you someday (culture lifestyle age language...) .

I repeat again , what those Moroccan men are doing to you is not right and i condemn it but they are just like every bad men you have met during your life journey . I feel so sorry for all those women and i am here to give advices and shed a light on that kinds of subjects .

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