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Submitted by Wendy Page (United States), Feb 21, 2013 at 11:00

I didn't just "talk to him". I was his "fiance'" in 2010. I spent every night video conferencing with him for months, then I went and stayed at his family home (in that little rooftop apartment) for three weeks. I was with him 24/7, met his friends and family, had coffee at Cafe Fath, bbq'd meet at the butcher shop, ate chicken at the all-night chicken place, had my photo taken with him a thousand times for "proof", sat with his mother when she was sick.

After I came home, I spent another 6 months videoconferencing with him before I told him once and for all that I would NOT get him a visa because that was the only thing he had any interest in. I'm sure he badmouths me, no doubt about that. Just like he did the girl who came - and went - before me. I feel certain that you do not have 'all the information' and that you're making a big mistake. But it's your life....................

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