He is Probably Using You for a VISA

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Feb 20, 2013 at 12:37

YV:

This man has no regard for your feelings.

Having sex with a 17 year old girl can get you in serious trouble if you are a male in some places.

Furthermore, it sounds like he is using you to get some kind of passage into Australia.

When he does, you can be sure he won't have anymore use for your company, unless he wants sex and has nowhere else to turn to.

I am a man, and I can also tell you that if you keep going back to him, you are just giving him permission to hurt you even more.

All of the "I love you" is standard textbook technique for men like him to get women like you back, knowing full well that you are emotionally invested.

But as Suse has already said: there is no love without trust. And you have every reason not to trust him.

You've cut him waaaayyyyy too much slack already.

You need to end this immediately.

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