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Submitted by Gail (Canada), Feb 14, 2013 at 02:47

I think how youre feeling right now is normal. You left for a reason, you were unhappy and now what your feeling is separation anxiety because you spent the last year with this man and now all of a sudden youre without him. Youre going to feel the same as long as you continue this relationship via cam, text, email, but if you separate yourself from this man for some time you will know what your true feelings are and seeing as you had doubts before and chose to leave and go home should tell you something.

Its the same way we all feel when we first leave a relationship even if it was bad or abusive. Take time for yourself with no communication and you will see what you really want. But since you already know you wont marry him this should tell you that this man is just not for you. I hope you find the answers you need, take care .

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