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Submitted by gail (Canada), Dec 27, 2012 at 20:55

I never stated that my situation at the moment is 100% complete, but we know what we want and we have our plans and we manage with our situation, and the only comments I make to people who post on here are of what I know and if anyone has read my comments, I do say quite often that this is not something my husband or I recommend to anyone, its a very long process, requires great commitment, sacrifice and trust. Some people can do it. But as we have all seen, heard and read , many of these situations on here are undoubtably SCAMS! As far as any relationship is concerned , I have never once in my life ever said I'm 100% sure...I would have to be a fool to say so.

What I'm saying as of this moment and for more than 3 years, my husband has never given me any reason to cause concern our doubt, If anyone read the questions I answered in a previous blog they would see this. Could something change in the future, yes, but I could say this with any relationship I had. I have never said to anyone on here to go ahead, don't worry. You can give people your opinion, but the final decision will be theres and I have learned that many take the plunge only to regret it later, but I do know a few couples who did it and are very happy. But no one on here , you or I can say with 100% certainty how a relationship will turn out, but yes some do have obvious warning signs. But as for me I am happy and hopefully to be reunited in one happy household within the next 2 months ...knock on wood :)

I have no problem if anyone wants to ask me questions , but people who ask also have to realize that every situation, or maybe in this situation I should say not every person is the same. So thats it for now hope everyone is enjoying the Holidays, Merry Christmas & Happy New Year :)

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