To Guest

Submitted by Anon1 (Morocco), Dec 21, 2012 at 04:56

Dear Guest ,

When people communicate on line they can tell all sorts of lies. Is this true Guest ?

"I see a lot of people seem to be interested in my age and my Iraqi man's age. I am older, by 13 years but so far it has not been an issue. However, you are right, I am the one that feels embarrassed and insecure about the age difference." Is this the truth ?......... ..,

"I would like for you and all the other readers to know that I was not trying to hide any ages. ". Is this true ? ........... .

."I can can assure you the age thing doesn't enter the equation and I was not keeping it from the group, just didn't think it was an issue. " How do you know who he dated before you ,have you met them ? ......... ..

"The women he dated before were also older. guess he just likes older women. but I will take your advice as I am always guarded when it comes to younger men wanting to date me. flattered as i may be, I still can't get used to it." So all that you know about your man is what he has told you. It may be the truth it may not ,how can you know ?

Age does matter guest . This man will want to have children . You have been targeted because of your age 54 ! There are many foreign women of your age living/married to much younger men in my country. They provide these men with phones,lap tops ,money,homes ,cars and sometimes businesses . These women either go home broke or continue the relationships hoping that they can recoup some of their loses. In all the relationships that I know of the men have young girls on the side .Either way they use these women many families and friends play along with the charade and everyone turns a blind eye. You have had a lovely ,romantic time with this man . Now it is time for you to make a decision. You can finish this relationship now and walk away with sweet memories . Or You can give up your world to be with this man . Only you can decide . I wish you good luck and happiness .

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