re to "no one is ever really satisfied by Straight_Talk_Luigi

Submitted by Gail (Canada), Dec 10, 2012 at 21:37

Well, I do agree with you Luigi, many of the people who ask for advice and then all say their men are honest, will learn the hard way, I talked with many men overseas in the last several years and the range from lets get married after 2 mins to lets talk for a year and lose their mind and tempers as soon as u firmly let them know you will not marr them. I guess some people do need to learn the hard way. No one is saying that ALL these relationships will fail, just that , lets face is, they will be few and far between.And for me to married to a muslim man I met online and say this should say something. And I know how difficult it is and I had doubts at the beginning, and I did my investigations and I had requirements that I needed satisfied before I married. But some of the stories on here scare me ,

I dont believe in love at first sight or that I knew from the first moment that I was going to marry my now husband, actually one of early on conversations about life and family in general had me explain that I would in no way, shape or form ever marry anyone, and he told me that one day he wanted to marry and have a family at some point in his life. But I see some women on here , dating 2 month, 6 months, and theyre ready to marry...But I guess to each their own. I couldn't learn and ask everything I wanted to know it that short of time

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