response to Marriage Guide by Isis

Submitted by gail (Canada), Nov 19, 2012 at 09:29

Well I'm happy you are married to a good Egyptian muslim, as I am married to a good Algerian muslim...I think what its going to boil down to these women is how these men "approach" them. Its the same " to good to be true" romance, the sad tragic stories, the promises and it all moves as fast as these women will let it. These men know as soon as the women get suspicious they slow down , get defensive , use the same old lines "I thought u loved me , why do u ask me these questions?", "dont you want to help me ", "I thought u loved me", "I never met a woman like u..." blah blah blah. The signs of a bad man are always there, possessiveness, jealousy, control issues, trying to separate you from friends & family, anger, asking for money, pushing for marriage, trying to convert u, asking for help in the form of money or a visa, and they are very coy about it ....and so many more

Ladies dont be afraid to ask them any questions, if these men loved you they wouldn't get angry, they would understand what some go through when they meet some of these men who are scamming you ...Don't let them get away with answers of ,"I m not those men , don't u trust me, I would never do that to u "...A real ma is not going to play games , treat u bad or demand anything of u ...and remember if something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't ...

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