To Guestn

Submitted by Luna (Denmark), Nov 17, 2012 at 00:40

Oh,God,

Your story sounds so familiar to me.I dont want to be harsh but I believe the best thing to do for yourself and for your daughter is to stay away from this guy. Everything sounds wonderful but I am absolutely convinced he is after visa. Plz Plz be smart and protect your family from the damaging consequencies that will follow in case you make decision and marry him.

I have been living with Iraqi man and have a child with him. He swears not only on his mom but on our child too, and at the very same moment he knows thats a lie. He is a pathological liar and as I see his Iraqi friends do the same. Dont believe in everything he says, you dont know him. Lying to them is just a way to get what they want, they lie easily their spouses, in their minds it is acceptable to lie to a woman.

They are all very open minded until the day they get you and you become emotionally dependable on them, then you see how they really are. No such a thing as a liberal, open muslim arab man who has been raised in Arabia, no way, no, no, no, no..... Dont think he is what he wants to show you he is. They are all messed up mentally because of the way they grew up and the double standards which rule their lives and countries.

The picture is clear to me. I have been through the same beautiful beginning, but then... I could spend hours to comment your post and speak of my horrible experience with one of these Iraqi men. I know his friends, no matter of the age, they are all the same liars.Dont fall for this. Dont be the next victim. Dont trust him, DONT!!!!

You are in love with a fake, I think. 3 meetings is not enough time to see whats behind the mask he created so tactically. Dont be naive plz. I dont mean to offend you but I cant be silent when sense you are about to make a big mistake and to destroy your life and your childs one.

Hope you could see the things the way they are! Wish the best to you!

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