Turkish Men are very Abusive

Submitted by Gaudi (United States), Nov 12, 2012 at 07:14

I was dating a guy by the name Can Ozan ... who's assistant of professor at University Of Bridgeport and also a Student... Since We met everything went wrong.. First night he took me to the student campus to have sex on an empty room.. I obviously said NO and walked away. He aplogy for long hours and I gave him a second chance.. They guy sent me links to an internet blog about poetry and photography telling me he is a great guy blah.... Texted me til almost 7am and also used the word Honey all time and Love you after a few hours since we met.. Crazy duh...Same day Ozan took me to the hills in Waterbury for dinner wine... He order a bottle of wine and told me some crazy immature histories..

He was sweet at some point tho very confusing and looking needy. He once again tried to have sex with me this time inside the car and i let him know once again I wasnt ready... This guy acted so kind at times and very sweet using cheap psychology to make me lay in bed with him but wasnt working and he get mad... He wisper twice if he was a good guy Ill treat him like a jerk anyway when I was pushing him off of me third time he was trying sex like a jerk... My experience with Can Ozan was horrible ended very badly :((... He got a girlfriend in Turkey and a double life. He is dating around and sleeping with everyone including turkish lovers in Turkey.. This girl was suppose to be the third girlfriend he left cuz she did not did good on a test and couldnt go to the same University..

After her he had a mexican girlfriend in Canada and Finally in CT he wanted me to be a fake girlfriend.. Real Life he never broke up with third girlfriend in Turkey.. Making the rest just a sex partner like the Mexican girl in Canada... When I found out Ozan is in a relationship in Turkey and sexually involved with many woman he doesnt even know the number... I freak out and proved my point in front of him... Can Ozan prince charmin was a real FROG... The man who wanted to meet my children and offer me the stars and a relationship settle down with me etc etc Its only a Cold Brain Jerk whos looking for sex everywhere. He is Creepy and Violent. He ATTACKED ME INSIDE THE CAR BECAUSE I HAVE THE GIRLF INFO. He tried to brake my phone and told me to give it to him if I dont want him to hurt me. I was in shock surprised.

Ozan was like a prince wanting to help move my dad and also wanted to drive under the storm just to be with me and bring me some batteries and food for the hurricane Sandy. I lived a very VIOLENT SCENE I ENDED RUNNING AWAY FROM THE CAR... He was looking at me with a sad look asking for sometime to screw my life more.. Hes plans was really move back to Turkey when he finish school but keep me around while he is in CT....any of his friends he met after leave Turkey can know about me but his family or anyone in Turkey obviously cus thats his real world waiting for him.. He made PROMISES RELATIONSHIP SELLING HIMSELF LIKE A WONDERFUL GREAT GUY WHEN HE WAS ONLY A HORNY CHEATER WITHOUT HEART... HE DOESNT EVEN RESPECT HIS OWN RACE WHEN HIS CHEATING ON ANOTHER TURK....Mr. Can Ozan has NO VALUES OR MORALS BUT I WANT TO BELIEVE THEY ALL ARE NOT THE SAME... Even after this experience I RATHER STAY AWAY FROM TURKISH MEN...God Bless any of us around this people. I lived in hell for weeks and I dont wish harm on others... Blessings.

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