Lies and Meeting Him

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Oct 14, 2012 at 18:50

Cindy:

If your man is lying to you, you need to end this relationship immediately.

The fact that you've never met him says this is more of an on-line relationship and if you've only caught him in lies randomly, I can pretty much promise you he's hiding a lot more stuff from you.

Of course he's going to try and turn it around on you, that's what scammers and liars do. I've had the same thing happen to me with manipulative women.

They do it because it works and try to make it feel like it's your fault.

I don't know who is telling you to embrace him (other than him, obviously) but you might want to ask those same people if they'd say the same thing about an American man next door. Where people get into trouble a lot on here is when they apply double standards to their man because he's a Muslim, from another country, a different race or younger. I would also inquire if their partner lied to them what their personal recourse of aciton would be.

Cindy, it sounds like you've been talking to this man for a long time. That's another problem I have with this.

You can talk to a guy for years and years, especially on-line or over the phone, and not even get anywhere as far as a relationship goes.

If you feel second to his job in the manner you imply, I don't think he's really that concerned about you and maybe using you for something, especially if you've caught him lying .

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