Far from my country

Submitted by Alicia (Qatar), Aug 11, 2012 at 08:03

I met a Moroccan guy online chatting we decided to meet in person an started dating, i am so honest with him about my salary and good position. We live together for 2yrs. Our only problem is he spend most of his time with his friends and family without me. I meet his siblings once and never happen again.

I am supporting him financially cost money is not an issue and i am generous. He said he loved me and wants to marry me however his words and action are different. He keep using the word "i was planning to" but it didn't happen. When i was about to break up with him with no remorse at him suddenly he change spending time with me and calling me for 1week until things get back to the old him of going out at night while i was waiting for him until 2:30am even he knows i have work in the morning. He does not work!

I don't understand arabic and he is always on the phone so i don't know if his in to other women. What should i do? I love him i gave him everything but i don' t think its enough for him! Is he cheating on me? Is he using me? My mind always has questions and everytime i asked him, he keeps on saying his honest and i just crazy and stupid that if i broke up with him i will regret it because i cannot find someone like him who love me so much and so honest to me. By the way if he got money he wont share it to me but if i got my salary he should know the exact amount and he is the one holding my ATM. Please help

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