To Anna

Submitted by anon1 (Morocco), Mar 31, 2012 at 05:56

Hi Anna ,

you asked ."Why he won't admit that he had sex with someone else" You gave one of the answers yourself . "He never admitted cheating because he knows that would be it for us"

The other answer is because he is a sociopath (there is no cure for him..the cure for you and your children is to leave him now )

Sociopaths have no heart ,no conscience and no remorse.They don't worry about paying bills.They think nothing of lying and cheating.They are very charming and excellent convincing ACTORS .

Anna you stated

"Why he hangs onto me is a mystery ? "

Where you going to invest your inheritance into property /business in Morocco ?

where you going to pay for his flight to and living costs in Morocco. ?

Would you stay with someone who loved you so much that you could do whatever you liked ?

Would you stay with a person who loved you so much that they believed your lies ,again and again?

Oh and you didn't have to work because this person also paid all the household bills ,paid for your daughter and paid for your lifestyle .

It's not really a mystery is it Anna.

Anna when you first met him ,did you pay for everything ? Trip to Morocco e.t.c

Why don't you sit down and add up the financial cost of this relationship .EVERYTHING that you have paid for since you met him .

A Moroccan man married to a Moroccan woman pays for everything . Here in Morocco ,men that benefit from foreign women older than them are known as gigolos .You said that he was 32 and you are10 years older. Anna he is cheating on you with girls of 19/20 not 42 year old women . You may look fantastic, you may look years younger than your age and many men of your age or younger in U.S /Europe may be attracted to you . In Morocco OLD AGE for a woman starts at 35 .

Anna you have a son and a daughter to think about . Instead of wasting away this inheritance you would be a better mother to invest it for your childrens education /future . If you really love your children Anna please rid yourself of this man now.

You said " I wish I was stronger and did not believe him when he tells me that he loves me and is sorry "

Anna ,see a relationship Counsellor . Speak honestly with your family and friends . Be honest to yourself ,this man does not care about his daughter . If he did he would not risk losing her by sleeping with young girls.

NEVER take your daughter to Morocco NEVER. However nice his family may seem ,whatever they say to you,they will blame you.He wants to live in Morocco . Anna be smart buy him a one way ticket to Casablanca.

Good Luck Anna .

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