illusion fantasy in the sea of mohameds..

Submitted by blueisis (United Kingdom), Mar 28, 2012 at 19:11

Hiya ..I have just returned from my hollidays in Sharm..I am afraid I have to laugh at your comment..finally on my own from Norway..I seem to have lost the thread..but my lines were the same I will love you to the end..yes the end of my wallet..Thank you so much..

I also have a tale to tell.although I am fortunate enough to be alerted to the misery/emotional hell of many a western women, soon enough to have no substantial damage in the life..for the moment I suffer hurt pride..emotional abandonment..embarrassment..financial loss..all of which can be gotten over with in time..Thankfully I realise the impact of my endeavour of the love quest perhaps before too much damage is done..with no marriage,children etc..The bottom line is that western women cannot have successful or respectful relations with Arabic men..The culture is entirely different in the west we have spent 50 years overcoming the inequality of women and the Arab states are just not there..Women are not equal..they are cattle..property..a diverse misnoma in western principal..read any information you can about Muslim non muslim marriage..find out about Orfi marriage contract..if on holiday in the south Sinai check out Dezy house for information..and any on line blog about Egyptian gigolo. Western people must try and remember we are from an environment of different nobilities...ie we have more independent rights..we are also from a richer economy..comparitive to many places in the middle east.

I can only assume that the decline in morals in the resorts of the south Sinai are indicative of environment..they certainly have no place within the Koran..the people are faced with desperate times within a revolution and lets face it economic survival..they have no money..no extra resource..no nhs..the economy is stagnant except in tourist areas..so in the resort areas they are surrounded by westerners with money to burn..hence..western women ..naive and lonely hearted in the love market in search of a dream are easy pickings for a certain element of the male populous..so they play and play the game..it is an industry..weather it is for visa,or money or love/sex..I am sorry for any women who has been taken in by the fantasy..I know how hard it hurts..I was lured by a fantasy love..nice Arabic man..kind,gentle, sweet,soulful,sexy..I think he is gentle sweet and kind..We meet ,I am on holiday..he is a diver I succumb to the fantasy of Arabic prince take me to swim with the fish...we have a romance..I return to the Uk ..but our relations fizzle out..its the whole intercontinental scenario...any ways a few years later..in a way my heart still yearns for him..lonely heart that I am supporting my 3 children alone in the Uk..and then out of the blue ..who can say whether it was coincidence or not he adds me on facebook on the day of my mothers funeral last November..

emotionally I was gutted, and this makes me think..maybe..just maybe..he's the one.. Indecently I was his first facebook friend..he had just got connected..post revolutionary technologies..so a reconnection begins and in no time he ask me to come to him...I agree, I am lonely,cold in the winter and in need of love and want to rediscover our relationship..I ask him for time off with me ..book my flight and then the love trip begins..trying to draw me forward..at times I find this daunting as it is virtual, but I get sucked in anyway..words ,words, words so many words..you are my life, we are the same heart and mind, you are my soul, I cannot live without you. I will love you till the last point on my life..there are some things he said to me so succinctly..I could not believe it, this felt as if he was talking directly to my very soul..but always in my mind how perfect his English was with these testaments of truth..because at other times he could barely understand me..I have to concede now that he was in fact cutting and pasting from the internet guide of how to seduce a naïve western woman..lol..

In short as I am not entirely sure about the situation I book a sanctuary hotel for me from the UK as it is cheaper..as I am told we can only stay at a resort which allows Egyptian passport holders which we would have to collect on the day..of course I pay for both hotels..He also informs me that he has to work everyday..I am devastated..but try to understand..as I am from the rich western world therefore I can afford to take holidays etc..I arrive in Sharm with love and hope in my heart after considerable financial expense and yes blind ignorance...He does not meet me at the airport..but insists I must go to him on the first night..I check into my safe house..he meets me outside to take me to a resort which allows Egyptian passport holders..I pay all that I can which at that time was about £170 English pounds..and we go to an apartment ..well I can only describe it as Nataschas place(that's what the Egyptians refer to as prostitute)..It was on a reputable resort but was obviously a spare..in need of renovation..it was tatty, things were broken, the electrics and plumbing were dodgy..oh and we were given no towels..that was a sign I chose not to recognise at first..I was far too nice..trying to understand the poverty of the real Africa..ha..I stay with him while he is there only from dusk until dawn..all the day I am alone, bored,frustrated,angry..but trying to be reasonable..it takes a few days for me to realise that infact the dream the Arabian prince is actually a caveman stuck in The 7^th century Mohamed..women are just chattels of no importance and he actually is a couch potato..tired after work..with no interest whats over in me..apart from..eating the takeaway I pay for, watching football and to have sex ..porno style because any sensitivity and tenderness were not apparent in his relation to me..I realised perhaps that he was ignorant, selfish and completely incapable of responding to a sensitive responsive woman..he had perhaps learned about sex via the Arabic face book porn on the internet..wowsa..I wasn't ready for that..where was my sensitive soul lover..in my imagination that's where..so yes thanks to my escape hotel I was able to jump ship..I cannot believe I was lured to him ..with lines such as come to me..come to me now..I need you..to be treated well like a prostitute..unbelievable..obviously he wasn't as smart as his compatriots to look after the cash cow and keep it sweet in order to milk it..

I return to my hotel mortified at the situation, huge mass of money spent on the endeavour and for what..I don't understand so he could have a cheap prostitute for a few days...pig.. you know I could have had a few high end gigolos for the money I spent to get there..

So yes back in my safety hotel then there comes the river of Mohameds..there was at least 8..two of which ask me to meet them ..even though they were sexy gorgeous I resist, firm in my truth..I cant come to Egypt for one man and leave with another..I am not like that..i hurt them I know..perhaps mabye they may respect me for my ability to resist there charms..to be honest sharm is a crazy place..although I really love it.. but really you can be connected to one super sexy gorgeous guy..be separated for a moment then find another just as deep just as sexy round the next corner there is another 3 ..all called Mohamed which at least helps with any confusion..So girls please wake up to the reality of these prince Sharmings..THEY HAVE NO RESPECT FOR WESTERN WOMEN>>THEY ARE EASY HA best stick with western men..even tho the rapport may be somewhat disappointing

After my holiday of loneliness on his home ground he facebook messages me as obviously I wasn't worthy of a text message whilst on his home ground....he is back in the hope of the virtual relationship.."honey I am so sorry..forgive me..what can I do to make me not angry of you."..Well honey no..thing ..don't bother and well goodbye to the fantasy man

Please LADIES DONT BOTHER WITH THE FANTASY>>>it is a DREAM

next year I think I will meditate and winter in Tibet

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