marriage to an Egyptian man or promise for this

Submitted by Layla (Romania), Feb 8, 2012 at 09:30

first all women which think at this must to know few things. i can understand for what women are interested about this type of man, but few exception no make as marriage with egyptian man who is muslim to be ok. like other mans from other cultures, they are men and will speak about everything to obtain what they want. few complimenta and feeling as make you like women to be appreciated is nothing. i read that story which is old now of that canadian women. all women must to know as early or later they will be forced to be muslim. 1/ because kids will grow up forced in muslim religion.

2. because your husband will not leave you to pray when you want. 3. because you as women , wife of a muslim must to cover her head.. 4.. because if you are not muslim he can divorce and take your kids.. 5. because if you are not muslim woman you not getany money if he dies all take family. and if you are muslim you get less. so early or later this converter will happen.

As future women my advice is to read quran before to be involved in a relationship with a muslim man, and to read from some islamic sites all books which talk about muslim women.. and see if thatway of life you like. because all rules will be for women and for man never. man have power in this religion , you like women you not can have many monies and attitude to ask him why and where he goes. or why him make some thing for example if you move in egypt or in some islamic country you will be very forced to live by their rules. algeria and tunisa are more open minded in this religion. in rest all the rest country are very bad with these rules. muslim are 2 types shiite and sunnite. shiite apply lot of rulles and respect all rules and for women is no so good. if you are from other culture wil be very hard to be adapt to these rules. as women must to know as you will no work , because women very less work at they and certainly they will not agree for you to go to an office.

as women you must to know as in case of marriage you must to make one agreement at advocate where you ask some money, house on your name, kids to remain with you if exist divorce, etce and many other things. this is marriage in muslim religion. as future mother must to know as if have kids and you live in islamic country you never will not can go with tehy in other country....if you divorce you not can take kids and return at your mom... you are forced to remain in that country.and father can take your kids after kids have 9 years. be prepared as he will can take another wife when is unhappy with you , and you not can have nothing against .quaran gives right for this.

i talk from my experience of relationship with one egyptian. there exist happy cases, but less. be sure as women as you know all about wife of one muslim man and visit him few times to see him in his area with his friends. and be sure as you can be adapted at that way of life. if he is very religious and is very traditional for you will have it very hard as women from other culture.

try to no be very involved in a relationship with a muslim, until you are not sure as you know lot about this life. and until you are not sure about that man.. they lie like all men from other cultures. try to not build up the relationship in your head because you think this is what you want from a relationship.. in general muslim men are very wise with words and have education to talk with women in that way in which that women think as is one queen. but is not true.

all the best for all

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