think i've decided

Submitted by SL (Japan), Dec 19, 2007 at 09:04

jennifer solis--
yeah, what he told you does sound like a thing my fiance would say.
in fact, he's already threatened to kill me if i walk away...
(dunno if he meant by what he said. probably joking... well hopefully anyway...)

iv'e been thinking about it for a long time, but even when i had a chance to in the past, i just couldnt bring myself to tell him straight to his face "NO!", but after having talked to many people and a lotta thinking to myself, i realized that i didnt sign up for all the pain, self-doubt, self-disgust etc hes inflicted on me and that i have completely been brainwashed by him and his thinking. i was living his life, not mine.
i was buying all the promises and sweet words hes given me and made myself believe that i would be the biggest fool if i let him slip away.

so now the question is how can i break up w/ him w/o getting him upset???
every person ive talked to say that i should be careful and concerned about my safety.
should i do it over the phone or email? or what?

P.S. thanks S for the article :)

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