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Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
in response to reader comment: United by one, divided by zero ;)

Submitted by Jordana Ghannam-Ahmed (United States), Jan 25, 2020 at 00:19

Salaam Shomi, thank you for the shout out and welcome :) I actually wrote out a fairly lengthy response earlier this afternoon and then just as I went to submit it, my phone died, and 30 secs later when I plugged it in and opened my internet window, of COURSE I lost the entire contents of my original post (*face plant*). Lol but anyways I've just put the littles to bed and now have time to re-respond. And yes, you are correct I did quite a bit of posting here in years prior; my last pregnancy was taxing, our home construction seemed like it would never end, and my older kids started sports and I returned to work outside the home FT, but FINALLY things have slowed to a normal Tempo giving me some down time to catch up on things :) (plus I've been at home relegated to bed and very light duties much of the last week or so with a diagnosis of internal shingles virus, so i very quickly grew tired of watching TV and the usual outlets, so I'm glad to be back and see what's good on the Daniel pipes "DNT Marry an Egyptian" forum (that what my husband calls it lol). But you're correct also that I was raised primarily in Minneapolis USA, my family is from Damascus syria and were granted political asylum in USA in 1984, I have four brothers, my dad is Sunni Muslims my mom is syrian orthodox Christian (interfaith marriages are VERY commonplace in Syria, and even in Egypt and the west bank where I would be engaged/married/live and where some of my dad's side of the family would later live. It's perfectly acceptable for Muslim men to marry a Jewish or Christian woman, both islamically speaking and socially/culturally. Despite what many people believe, Religion matters far less there than it does in the USA it anywhere in the secular west. If a Muslim man tells you that he cannot marry a non Muslim, or that his family will not permit or whatever, this is bull$@?! Okay? If he tells you that you just convert before marriage or pressures conversion as part of the terms of the relationship or for any reason, you can and should disqualify him for that alone. My brother is a PhD in Islamic theology and jurisprudence and is also an Imam, he is also conservative, comparatively speaking and he will confirm that this is total nonsense and is simply not true. No islamically correct and morally upright self respecting Muslim-man or woman-wuld ever try to "convert" someone or use conversion as a deal-breaker or non negotiable requirement for a relationship or marriage. This is against the Quran and against Islam that anyone should enter the faith not of their own free will and having been called to it. That should be true of any religion imo. Anyways just an FYI about that). I am a physicians assistant (PA) by profession, a mother of 4, and a wife-my husband is Egyptian, and practices law. I would say by and large I tend to agree with most who post cautionary advise on here; with the only exception being in regards to perhaps a very prejudicial or islamophobic way of thinking and mindset. Of course coming from western women of diverse but secular backgrounds and with little experience with Muslims or Islamic culture other than what you read of it in the news (which is nearly all bad press, islamist extremism and miscreants have hijacked our religion and given us a terrible image problem to overcome), this is not entirely surprising. I try to share my thoughts and the reality that truly not all MENA men are a certain kind of way, just like all western women aren't morally bankrupt and promiscuous, and Islam is not a restrictive or repressive faith that subjugates women, but rather, neither the Bible or the Quran teaches or permits these things in any way shape or form and much of what is purportedly found in the Quran (if you go off what the media says) is patently false but people believe it because they've way to dispute it; they've never read the Quran, they probably even don't know anyone personally who has! The reality is, those kind of ignorant and backwards beliefs and behavior towards women or anyone who doesn't subscribe to a very rigid and hypocritical version of a religion and the people who practice them are found in ALL religions across the board, the type of things and behavior from men discussed on thisbforum are not exclusive to Islam and could be just as easily perpetrated by a Christian as it's based in the culture and upbringing and not a religion. Even in the west there is our own version of that, like we see for example with the FDLS Mormon sects who practice polygamy and child marriage and sexual abuse among other things. Many Christian denominations have their insular little pockets of extreme and false practices in the USA which I won't get into in detail as it's neither here nor there. Also I want women to know though that there is a high probability that their MENA love interest is a low rent opportunist and they are endemic in the middle East, Egypt being a particularly hot spot for this phenomena. (especially given the means and method By which they will most likely have met this guy, which is typically online, initiated by the guy, sometimes unsolicited and other times via a dating platform, progresses quickly, and doesn't allow either party to truly see the whole picture of the other person: who they are, their current socioeconomic status and that of their upbringing, their education and awareness level, their interests, sense of humor, friends and dynamic of close relationships and family, their religious and social beliefs and conduct, goals for the future and expectations, even their appearance! Also when you "meet" someone under the pretense of dating right off the bat, there is the risk and reality of attracting some bad fish into the net who seek to exploit even the smallest vulnerabilities.) And anyone could be victim to it; being young and attractive isn't necessarily a defense against it. A woman might be the victim of previous abuse of any/all types, she might be recently divorced or on the rebound from a long term or very meaningful relationship that she didn't expect to end, she may have children and find dating to be challenging, she may be overweight or self conscious of her appearance and looks, she may be dealing with low self worth and feel unworthy of a high standard and expectations from a man-those things make it easier for them to do their thing and work these women over but they aren't like a textbook prerequisite. Like I said, just like not all MENA men are a Mohamed or an Azan, not every woman is a Danielle or Nicole either. It's just those ones make the best TV and fit the stereotypical mold. I've been contacted on my personal email from several girls over the years asking for advice and personally discuss their relationship or potential relationship with MENA men-some American girls, others European, and I was glad they felt comfortable and trusted me enough to share with me the details of their situation and that perhaps I could shed some light on it for them. Of course in every case I've had tell them the inevitable: he's a bad Apple, throw him away. But aside from that I tried to explain to them exactly WHY he is a bad Apple, and to see all his actions and behavior for what it really is, from the eyes of someone more skilled in understanding them and from their culture. I advise them, look, he may SAY this or that, and talk a good game, but he's failed like every basic tenet of decency in his own culture and he's taking his s$?!!@ game over to foreign girls and hitting the jackpot because y'all aren't holding dude to the same standard, your blinded by infatuation and hold him to the same standard as a western guy, and thats like comparing apples to oranges, if anything ever was. They couldn't conduct themselves that way towards a girl in their own country, no decent respectable forward thinking progressive girl would have him! Bc we see them coming a mile away. I've actually met and remained good friend with and a mentor to a young girl I met on here, several years back, she, of course, was in great denial and very much in love in an unhealthy and unreciprocated way, and is quite young (Im 34; she in her very early 20s) and she did not follow my advise and words of wisdom, and, unsurprisingly, things went exactly as I'd warned her, and he'd turns out to be nothing short of a grade A douche&$@. And now she's lost several years of her life, physical intimacy, money, time, etc. That coidkve been better spent doing almost anything at all. And she's a gorgeous girl-i mean, she could have her pick in her own country, shed be a catch to damn near anyone, all my American guy friends think she's the finest honey lol and her MENA guy? He wasnt even average looking by American OR middle eastern standards lol. I would've thought with how poor his personality and conduct was, he'd have to be the sexiest man alive to compensate, but it just goes to show, they don't all fit a particular stereotype or idea of who and what a shady opportunistic catfish love scam abusive different culture couple might look like or who they might be. I really hope she can become confidant and secure in being alone and really find herself and then be ready when the right guy enters her life to love him but to never forget to love herself first. That's what I would hope for anyone, and I would advise to any ladies second guessing their relationship on here. I when you're asking yourself if your relationship has an inequality in the balance of power and may not be authentic, I think the answer is in the question-you already know the answer. Now I'll never bash my culture as a whole or my husbands culture because of course, there ARE good ones, and I seem to have married a great one after all. But this "thing" this $!@? That MENA guys do, the THIRST is real my friends; it's real and it's well known and discussed in the MENA social culture. In Egypt it's sooooo well known and so prolific that it's embarrassing and shameful to all the normal Egyptians out there just trynna get a date or trynna NOT be a sheisty con artist. This type of thing is NOT openly accepted or tolerated among ANY of my family or friends in Cairo or Damascus. If a guy so much as smelled of such activities, he'd be ridiculed and shamed. It would never be openly admitted to or made known to anyone who wasn't most definitely of the same low moral code and complicit in the activity of scamming/using/playing/abusing/leading on/lying/etc to these women. Meaning that you don't see guys from decent families disapproving of such things typically going out and perpetrating them; it is as unacceptable to them as to their family and they'd be disowned and get the stuffing kicked out of them for acting so uncouth. Now lower class families may have one standard for whom is acceptable for their son, but also be limitlessly opportunistic and greedy and therefore willing to aid and abet their son/brother/friend/cousin in their game, if there is a potential to benefit them. Family is very much immeshed together and if one is struggling everyone struggles with them and in Egypt in particular the financial situation is such that families demand such unrealistic dowrys and marriage terms that in turn many families cannot afford to marry their sons and to cicumvent that issue among other potential benefits, they can marry a foreign girl, a western girl to whom the Egyptian pound means little more than Monopoly money and who doesn't understand the ins and outs of a typical marriage contract and obligations due to her and rights belonging to her. That's another thing, among so many more. There is really so much I can say about it that I haven't the ability to cover it all in one post, but truly it is gross and I can't say enough to exercise extreme caution and do not become an achievement to some green card hungrey sexually repressed and immature uneducated and unpromising Egyptian tourist industry worker (that's another stereotype lol btw right there but also one that has firm origins in reality). That's all for now :)

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14But alot of muslim girls does have sex before marriage [89 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 15:48257375
6SO WAKE UP LEXI [27 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 15:59257375
8MUSLIM MEN [52 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 16:03257375
3I live in US [26 words]NataliaJan 23, 2020 12:11257375
8Not wrong but... [103 words]Jordana Ghannam-AhmedJan 24, 2020 12:31257375
3Talk talk talk [31 words]ValerieJan 22, 2020 01:26257371
5Nice tried Valeria set up another name not Diana/Amy/Susan this time [27 words]jessica (canada)Jan 22, 2020 19:49257371
8To the Mentally Unstable Person Who Pressed the "Dislike" Button on my "Back and Responding to..." Comment Over 400 Times [20 words]NataliaJan 21, 2020 13:45257356
11TRUTH [99 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 17:27257333
8Thats right Chelsea well said [81 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 18:05257333
14Allow me to tell you a story [457 words]ShömiJan 18, 2020 09:26257233
4This is Nikki's post. i think she typed it in another forum not this one [363 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 15:39257233
102Back and Responding to the Sensible Observations as well as the Non-sense [366 words]NataliaJan 17, 2020 11:26257202
21you are crazy [1 words]RobertJan 17, 2020 13:47257202
18About the women Natalia [22 words]JessicaJan 18, 2020 01:54257202
8And You Are Irrational [44 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 14:59257202
13Yes they are all unstable and mental [298 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 23:30257202
16Jessica,you are so are right!She is crazy and mentally ill! [163 words]Lana(USA)Jan 20, 2020 13:42257202
13Trolls [145 words]ChelseaJan 21, 2020 12:01257202
10Still Perpetuating the Stereotype of the Over Emotional, Irrational Female [184 words]NataliaJan 21, 2020 13:19257202
8Excuse me....did I call your name out in this post? [10 words]ChelseaJan 21, 2020 13:35257202
6All the dislikes [27 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 18:10257202
6Yes Natalie have very severe mental sickness [283 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:43257202
3Chelsea like I said poor lonely soul [19 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:47257202
4Salaam Alaikum [61 words]Jordana Ghannam RatebJan 21, 2020 21:55257202
12Natalia. You must need something because your actions here show you to be unstable. [298 words]RobertJan 22, 2020 13:35257202
5Idiot Thinking [31 words]NataliaJan 22, 2020 14:18257202
5Robert [312 words]NataliaJan 22, 2020 14:42257202
12Natalia [255 words]RobertJan 23, 2020 01:43257202
10Well said Robert [18 words]AlenaJan 23, 2020 03:53257202
5I won't share my story now [63 words]AlenaJan 23, 2020 16:38257202
7Yes Robert [78 words]Polly (USA)Feb 8, 2020 23:48257202
4Polly Response [210 words]NataliaFeb 10, 2020 12:26257202
4Jessica. really acts like bully and unstable [17 words]SusanJan 16, 2020 18:28257196
10oh really these women are so unstable Susan including you [65 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:02257196
10Did I bullied anyone LOL [53 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 22:20257196
5I dare the troll will make up another name [196 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 01:27257196
13No Jessica, you did not bully anyone, you just tellin it like it is [108 words]ChelseaJan 21, 2020 11:41257196
4Well said Chelsea [277 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:23257196
6SUSAN/AMY/DIANA VERY UNSTABLE WITH MULTIPLE PERSONALITIES MENTAL ILLNESS [26 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 21:54257196
4Jessica you're obsessed with someone [117 words]DianaJan 16, 2020 18:04257195
12Hahahaha Nice Tried Diana [153 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:19257195
7Regarding "MOVING" [27 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:21257195
20Amy/Diana/Susan the same person [74 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 18:41257195
8By the way [11 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 19:07257195
15Jessica ,you're right!!!LADIES,LETS STICK TO THE PUROSE AND TOPIC OF THE FORUM !!! [87 words]Lana(USA)Jan 19, 2020 17:13257195
8Yes Lana all these trolls are one person [41 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 18:26257195
7I'm a "Troll" - That's Why My Comments Have the Most "Likes" Right? [38 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 08:18257195
7Hahaha your comments has most dislikes [42 words]JessicaJan 20, 2020 13:53257195
2Sorry phone typo again [20 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 18:21257195
2Your posts have most dislike Natalie [30 words]JessicaJan 21, 2020 18:16257195
5What has this forum come to? [100 words]Jordana Ghannam-Ahmed (Egypt)Jan 22, 2020 05:39257195
12Movie for you women to watch [64 words]JowaJan 16, 2020 13:59257191
7Just a movie nothing more [28 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:08257191
8Brainwashing [11 words]Not Muslim,never be!Jan 18, 2020 14:00257191
4Right Over Your Head [28 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:01257191
4I'm Going to [4 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:02257191
5Veer Zaara [74 words]LinaJan 19, 2020 15:25257191
9Not muslim never be..loved your name [40 words]JessicaJan 20, 2020 00:00257191
26The NEED to protect your "honor" [204 words]Lana(USA)Jan 20, 2020 09:56257191
3Veer Zaara [94 words]JowaJan 20, 2020 11:55257191
3Haha spot on Lana and they are do jealous of us. [107 words]JessicaJan 20, 2020 14:02257191
3you know alot about our culture it seems [104 words]Lexi-con of virtueJan 20, 2020 17:19257191
2This does not sound right [235 words]Anna 85May 17, 2020 22:10257191
4MOVING [67 words]amyJan 13, 2020 03:13257135
12OH POOR AMY [174 words]jessica (canada)Jan 13, 2020 19:52257135
12AMY/NATALIE [107 words]JessicaJan 13, 2020 23:35257135
8Confused [23 words]LinaJan 14, 2020 17:35257135
2Typo on phone [21 words]JessicaJan 14, 2020 17:55257135
10Confused as well... [125 words]Lana (USA)Jan 15, 2020 15:11257135
7OK so [9 words]DeeJan 16, 2020 13:42257135
6I believed they are the same person Lina [30 words]jessica (canada)Jan 17, 2020 16:06257135
11Be back soon [371 words]LinaJan 17, 2020 17:17257135
7TYPO [207 words]Lana(USA)Jan 17, 2020 18:41257135
12As for the trolls [200 words]LinaJan 17, 2020 19:46257135
6Yes IT'S THE SAME PERSON [87 words]JessicaJan 18, 2020 02:01257135
3Right Over Your Head [175 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:09257135
4Lana [83 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:12257135
4Lina [157 words]NataliaJan 19, 2020 15:17257135
12Replies to Lana [61 words]JessicaJan 19, 2020 18:45257135
5Hypocritical Comment [47 words]NataliaJan 20, 2020 12:52257135
4LEARN HOW TO READ AGAIN NATALIE ITS NOT LANA'S POST [60 words]jessica (canada)Jan 20, 2020 18:00257135
16Women's rights [390 words]LinaJan 1, 2020 16:12256990
11You're So Right, Lina [333 words]RobinJan 3, 2020 20:57256990
16Hard to get [292 words]LinaJan 9, 2020 18:01256990
13Bravo,Lina! [336 words]Lana(USA)Jan 10, 2020 01:55256990
3Trying my hardest for my daughter and twin grandsons [248 words]SandraJan 10, 2020 13:32256990
11The first mistake [233 words]LinaJan 11, 2020 20:47256990
6I am glad you stood up to him [223 words]ChelseaJan 11, 2020 21:49256990
76women here bash MENA men but seem to want to be a part of our culture [97 words]LexiJan 12, 2020 15:13256990
17Dear Lexi [158 words]LinaJan 13, 2020 15:08256990
14LEXI READ THE TITLE OF THIS FORUM [174 words]JessicaJan 13, 2020 23:22256990
11How so [32 words]ShömiJan 14, 2020 06:14256990
10THIS my thoughts exactly [188 words]JowaJan 14, 2020 16:32256990
12Stalker [94 words]JannaJan 15, 2020 04:34256990

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