Not a good idea

Submitted by Viraj (United Kingdom), Feb 6, 2017 at 18:08

Dear Ms.Destiny,

The first thing you could have avoided is your "single mother without marriage"status.

That was a faultline he was looking for.You have mentioned about this man abusing you.Yet you have continued communicating with him.I can understand,and I don't wish to be patronising,your wish to find a loving and protective person to look after you and your child but I don't think he is the person.

Stop communicating and literally getting"sucked into responding to him".Change your profile on Facebook and all other forums AND also your Settings across all platforms you socialize on.Stop going to any of these gor a while and use a free proxy VPN like I use Avira or Hoxx add on for Chrome/Firefox.

You will be safe this way.There will be a sense of confusion,loss, remorse etc.which are all understandable but this was NOT a way to find a stable and faithful partner/husband.

My best wishes will be with you always.Be safe and be sure that you deserve the best and do not find anyone online.Find anyone near you from your own background through a true wellwisher.Then you should be really safe.

Best luck,dear lady.

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