Get ahold of their phone

Submitted by XConvert (United States), Oct 5, 2019 at 23:09

For anyone in a situation like this, I urge you to get ahold of their phone. If they use WhatsApp, you can export an entire conversation to your email. iMessage is completely useless since you have to screen shot, but lucky for us, they all use WhatsApp. If your significant other has a passcode, try to watch and memorize one number at a time. When you get the entire code, get ahold of his phone and email yourself any suspicious conversations in Arabic ASAP. Have someone translate so you can know what's going on. Keep a separate email for these types of things if you have to. They're not afraid to use you, so don't be afraid to find out the truth.

Yes, many of them are married. I have heard that a marriage contract can say they can't have another wife, but to me this makes no sense lol. If "Allah" made 4 wives halal, how can you put a stipulation that he's only allowed to have one? They always say in Islam it's halal unless stated it's haram, so to deny someone a right that Allah gave them is laughable. Depending on where your significant other is, they can also practice muta, which is temporary marriage. I do know of a person who used that as their excuse to have sex with a ton of girls here.

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